Me leaving my friends and family behind to join my TrEmoRs is not a universal expectation.

If you pull this post up, you might know a bit about me personally. The fact I have left my friends and family behind to be with my True Emotion Mirrors has NOTHING to do with my True Emotion Mirrors. My friends and family… Let’s just say I have made bad decisions in my previous lifetimes about who to allow in my personal circles. I did not only make a mistake or two, I had a a habit. I had to fix some errors there. You MAY need to leave some people behind, but if that makes you sad, don’t. You’re not supposed to leave anyone you’d miss.

Having said that, I had to leave some people I’d miss myself because they were too close to the key people I needed to leave behind. The women I had an issue with were in the ear of other people I didn’t have problems with. I figured maybe one day they’d realize what they traded me in for and come back.

Leave the entire court.

What I do, and advise you to do, is to leave a whole bunch when you identify a narcissist with a court. Leave the entire court behind. It’s nearly impossible to remain friends with people who are still friends with a narcissist you have a beef with. It’s just too risky. Too much drama. You just have to hope one day they see your reasons and join you. I believe love will win in the end, but… How long until we get there…?

Before, I’d left entire groups of real good friends over one bad apple in the middle. I do feel the sacrifice is worth it. There are people I miss all the time, but cannot contact before they come to me and say: “I/we were wrong, you were right. We can see it now.” Nonetheless, I know that day may never come.

If there are no narcissists in there, keep your friends!

If you have feared that to be with your True Emotion Mirrors, you have to leave your friends behind, no. This does apply to friends you would rather leave anyway but fear it would make you look bad or they’d make your leaving really difficult for you. For instance, if you have gotten yourself mixed up with dangerous people, it’s entirely possible your soul will NOT ALLOW you to connect with the people you love the most, for as long as you fear you’ll drag them into that same danger.

This only applies if there are negative, toxic people in your life, drop them like a hot potato and learn not to make new connections like that. You may need to learn not to have “patch” friends and lovers, you know, those you don’t really love or feel excited about, but you just choose to fill up your contact list with just to have someone to talk to. You may need to learn to keep things very casual with some people when you mix and mingle, without getting yourself into relationships and friendships that are incompatible with your future with your True Emotion Mirror – for example, if they’re a celebrity and you’re not (yet).

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