Men in romantic relationships must learn to WANT STUFF, too.

Men with wants are sexy. Fulfilling a man’s desires is titillating to a straight woman. If a woman feels otherwise, maybe she’s not in the right relationship or even with the right gender, or she has some other issues to work through. I don’t know. For the purpose of this post, that is not our concern right now.

It is exciting and fun to be the woman of a man’s dreams – especially those men who she feels are amazing. My #1 message to men is always: You matter too, your wants matter, you can want more and ask for more, expect more. And you do not need to FORCE a woman into fulfilling your dreams, but you can FIND a woman who loves being THAT GIRL to you.

Whenever you break up with someone, lift your bar for the next woman; don’t lower it. Expect more, not less. Rise your price.

Maybe you have to do more, too. I don’t know, but as much as you can, just make sure you are not the problem, then find a woman who is also not the problem. Want more. Expect more. KNOW that there are women who are not entitled, self-centered, brainless, sex-avoidant gold diggers… And that those women struggle to find men who live up to their standards, too.

What is the right level of more? If you’re willing to give it and put an effort into it, it’s fair to expect her to be, too.

Want things for yourself, too. It’s sexy.

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