My best life advice SO FAR on your way to become famous.

I made some good decisions, and then there were bad ones. Stuff I would do differently now if I had the opportunity to undo those decisions. I’ll handle each topic at length later, but I’ll give you a shortlist to kick things off.

1. Learn to recognize narcissistic motivations in yourself and others NOW, before you become famous. Never make friends with a narcissist ever again unless you, too, are one. (Narcissists** understand things the same way; therefore, they make decent friends for each other even though to everyone else, they are toxic.)
2. Never build your success on the support of woke feminists, prudes, and cancel culturists. Take their opinions under advisement, but ensure you have RATIONAL, reasonable support, and a fan base not swayed by popular opinion alone.
3. Notice people who are investing emotion and money in talented people when their stocks are low. Users and coat tail riders are on the hunt for you now, aiming to coax you to rake up emotional and financial debt to them now, so they can cash it in when you’re rich and famous. “Remember who your friends were… where you came from” is BS. Indeed, remember and pay the fuck attention.
4. Very casually, without any fuss or noise, ghost people with who you don’t want to share your future wealth and fame. (Never make another friend you don’t want to be by your side when you hit fame.)
5. You must know what you want to be and what you want.
6. Use spirituality and spiritual tools to help you forward, but go about it as per YOUR instinct, not based on what you read. Read spiritual stuff as a SUGGESTION, not as an ORDER.
7. TRUST your process. You are you; they are them. They know less about you than you know about them – if you’re destined for fame.
8. When you’re not doing anything else in special, watch anything you find interesting on YouTube… Or if you don’t hate books, read them. Learn about ANYTHING and everything. You never know where the next lightbulb moment comes from. (Resin woodwork projects, my god. Addiction.) Read the autobiographies of your role models, and remember the important bits.
9. Don’t stress about not being constantly focused; don’t stress about having to be constantly in focus. YOU are YOU, and whatever your soul seeks, it’s hard-wired to try and find it. Don’t scold it for it. Relax.
10. Every uncomfortable feeling you have is like a treasure map to stuff you need to find out about yourself or other people.
11. Keep your mouth shut and your ears and eyes open. There’ll be a time to talk but DO NOT try to teach yourself to be more social and extroverted. You’ll become it automatically when it’s time for you to.
12. In addition to teaching yourself to be an expert in narcissistic personality disorder, learn to recognize the basics of borderline personality disorder and histrionic personality disorders. NEVER hire or befriend any of these people before you know exactly what you’re dealing with. (They have their uses, and they can be cured, even if I’m the only one saying so.) Knowing these personality disorders is your BEST asset in business.
13. Stop fussing about being a good/perfect person. Just be good enough. (Don’t treat others wrong, but don’t be such a good person you allow others to treat you wrong before you say “Fucking stop, bitch.”)
14. Don’t forget to make sure you’ll have fun in the future. Make sure you know what kind of sex life you want, too. (You’ll be rich and famous, you can have anything you want…)
15. If you’re a woman, remind yourself you don’t owe women loyalty and support simply because you share a gender with them. Women, TOO, have to earn your respect. YOU DO NOT REPRESENT WOMEN; you represent yourself… And perhaps a section of women… Very unlikely you’d speak for all of us.
16. If you’re a man, remind yourself that women want to be treated equally… At least officially. Teach them what the fuck that means.

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