No, you don’t have to “will it into being” the Universe will bring it to you eventually.

You don’t need to worry about the Universe not knowing what you want in life. It knows. Your problem is us people.

If all you want out of life is a monogamous marriage, a life in a house surrounded by a white picket fence, a golden retriever, and 2.3 children, you’re good. Nobody will fight you on this; you won’t fight yourself, and your spouse understands what it is that you want and why. You’re golden like your dog. Now, you just settle into your seat in your lazy river boat, and let life take you where you want and let everyone cheer you along.

Now, if that is NOT your dream, you’ve got a problem. Your problem is everyone who has that dream above. They DO NOT understand why you don’t want that. They want to save you from yourself. You might think you’re insane, and you might even feel terribly ashamed of yourself for not wanting to get on that river run. YOU need to be emotionally ready for when the Universe is going to open up for you – but then again, if you feel rushed to examine yourself, it’s the Universe telling you to.

You can’t really fuck this up, is the thing. It’s both annoying and reassuring. But the thing is… What we want is a COMPLICATED mess of things sometimes. It takes a super intelligence to figure out how to navigate not only your dreams but the dreams of other living things. It’s a puzzle that isn’t solved in 3 minutes while watching Netflix. That said, you don’t have to worry about it any more than the Universe tells you to worry about it. What you want isn’t always to your best interest. It is possible that your wants are “incorrect.” That’s the fun part. You will always get what you want – limited by other people’s wants – but you may want the wrong thing. Ultimately, you want things to BE REAL more than anything else in this world. You want TRUE love, not fake love… Well… Unless you don’t, and if you want fake love, well… The outcome is in what you seek.

(I wanted to learn to love the unlovable in a previous lifetime. A really shitty thing to ask the Universe. The proof is in the pudding. You cannot love the unlovable. That’s why it’s called that. So, you create yourself an unsolvable puzzle and it’ll take you some time before you accept it’s shit and move on.)

By the way. I wrote this post, and as I was hitting the “publish” button, I glanced at the heading again and finished it in my mind… You don’t have to will it into being…” …and plan your own fucking surprise party.” GUESS WHAT random image this mothafucking creepy thing picked for this post as I viewed it to check it? A brunette woman (me) holding up a birthday gift!! And it does it ALL THE TIME, it gives me the most “I couldn’t have possibly picked that myself to be more relevant to my current thought” pictures all the time… As if the Universe was underlining to me, with big, thick lines: “This is real. FUCKING TRUST IT ALREADY.” 😀 “Not a fucking coincidence. Not a random image even if technically it is.” There is nothing as precisely picked as “a random” in this universe if you just let go of controlling the things that are not yours to control.

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