(Online) Scam or a True Emotion Mirror?

I have a bit of a love affair with online dating, I must admit. I find it a romantic idea, that you’ll meet someone you had no way of meeting otherwise through this thing… Meeting of minds so similar, at vast distances, not because you were both raised the same way, but because you both think in the same weird way, and… Oh, it tickles my heartstrings. And no amount of CatFished episodes will make me think differently.

But… I do want true love, and if you want the truth, the one thing you cannot romanticize is blind trust. If you want the truth, you cannot force yourself to believe that the closet that your partner won’t open for you doesn’t contain skeletons. Online or offline, but this is about online romance scams and True Emotion Mirrors.

True Emotion Mirrors come with a STRONG element of supernatural.

When I say “supernatural,” I mean actual supernatural. I am not saying this to emphasize some “feeling connected” to them; I mean telepathy, signs you cannot control, having had premonitions about them, dreamed about them – if you’re artistic, you have drawn their likeness before meeting them, or you keep recreating the same game character over and over if you’re a gamer, and that turns out to be the person you meet online… But they’re real. And they will have no trouble accessing a phone, sending you a video, etc, to prove they are That Person.

You may have had a full-blown relationship with them in spirit before you met them. You knew to wait for a message from Jared Leto or Jennifer Garner. And you dodged about 200 fake accounts claiming to be them by now (because you follow them on social media, and you’re not stupid). Or, if you are the celebrity, you know to expect to one day find a person with a very clear description of a person that seemed unlikely to you before and impossible to fake as a generic “hot chick” or “hot guy” -image and get it right. YOU KNEW THEM before they contacted you.

If you didn’t, something else supernatural would have proven the connection.

I don’t know. A thunder strikes out of a clear blue sky just as their message hits the inbox. Maybe your cat pushes her head against you every time just before they call you. Every time. (When you’re home, at least. Like more often than not. :p) Maybe their description is exactly the same as your teacher jokingly described your future wife/husband in an imaginary role-play scenario 15 years before.

SOMETHING unusual and inexplainable must be going on… And the inexplainable cannot be, “Why would a woman/man like that want to talk to me for?!”

And they are definitely not going to tell you to send them money no matter how fucking poor they are compared to you. Consider it to be a breaking of what is romantic. Money and romance don’t mix well. They really don’t. I mean, money shouldn’t come in between you, but if they’ve survived without you (or by scamming other people), they can do it from now on, too, without you.

REAL True Emotion Mirror signs that can’t be faked online.

Telepathy. (Both ways.)

I mean REAL telepathy, not the kind of “oh I was just going to message you, how uncanny!” when you talk all the time anyway. No, you can literally read each other’s minds. Not because you know them so well, but because you know their mind and feelings almost as if they were your own. You may have conversations without speaking a word, and perhaps notice only later how weird that was.

Ability to spontaneously touch from a distance

While some visual aids like being together on a Second Life sim can make you ‘feel’ touches, a True Emotion Mirror can ‘touch’ you from a distance. You can feel a physical sensation of a touch (like a kiss) when you know nobody was there.

Chakra pull and opening.

You may become aware of your chakras for the first time, even if you had no idea what they were before.

Shared lucid dreams and ability to meet in a non-physical space.

You can have very lucid dreams with them in them. These dreams may show you exactly where your relationship is at the moment. If you are a victim of a scam, however, your supposed lover may appear in your dream to warn you about it.

Strong sense of timing.

You may know them already and feel strongly you’re not supposed to act on it until later. You may know how to sync your life to them, so that you’ll be where you need to be at the right time. It may seem logically counterproductive, but you just know to hold your horses.

Stuff that normally would feel silly or weird feels natural.

(Like hanging out on Second Life or something.) That said, True Emotion Mirrors can make EVERYTHING awkward, too… But, True Emotion Mirrors will sync with the Divine Timing, and what felt weird with them before (like hanging out on Second Life) will become natural. Divine Timing will work one way or another, and acting against it feels weird and awkward.

You don’t feel like you have to constantly perform to keep them.

At least they are not literally telling you to do certain things “or else,” even if your own insecurities may keep you in a performance mode.

General online romance scam avoidance -principles.

• No photo means they’re ugly or not who they say they are.
• Fake photo means they’re ugly or not who they say they are. (They want you to fall in love with their character, but don’t have one.)
• Never send money to someone who you haven’t seen in a live video conversation. No matter you’ve spoken to them on the phone. No matter they wrote your name on a piece of paper or on their body. (That’s a very easy Photoshop.) How do you know someone’s voice belongs to a certain body? (Even though a white American with a thick Nigerian/Indian accent should be a bit of a giveaway.) If they have the audacity to ask you for money, you can have the audacity to see proof of identity. A real person, True Emotion Mirror or not, would not ever ask their lover to send them money on blind trust alone. And gift cards. Who the fuck asks for gift cards if it’s not a scam?! Gift cards are great when you just want to get out of buying a real present to someone, but nobody should be asking for them for any reason.
• DO NOTICE THE RED FLAGS. They lost their wallet but can’t access their finances from the phone they’re using to contact you? They’re broke and useless, but have the audacity and narcissistic mindset to consider themselves worthy of a rescue from a complete stranger? At least, even if they’re real, they shouldn’t be pressuring you to save them.
• Just because a woman hasn’t ASKED for money, doesn’t mean they didn’t know how to make you send some. “Oh, I’m just having a rough day today, honey. The electricity bill came in today, and… Well. You know. It’s tough, baby.” What are you going to say if you’re not poor, a fucking psychopath, or a Finn? (Hehe. Finns will say: “Go to Sossu. They’ll help.”)

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