People don’t need to like you, let alone love you, for you to have the right to exist.

While the Cat Type Thinking trauma is effectively being too loved or needed (because they’ve figured this out already), the Dog Type Thinking trauma is the lack of realization that they don’t need to be loved or even liked to have the right to exist (after being born). Anyone can be the biggest ahole in existence and lose nothing but friends. Loners, too, have the right to their daily bread.

You don’t need to be a good person to be good enough to live and enjoy whatever sordid things you enjoy. The only time when you lose your right to your life is when you take the life of another, when you kill another person, taking the life they had every right to, even if you didn’t like them. That said. Self-defence and defence of one’s home are considered good reasons to kill, as it usually is accepted.

What you don’t have the right to is another person’s time or help beyond an emergency. You also don’t have the right to pretend an emergency when there isn’t one, just so you get attention but you know… sometimes people will understand.

The fact I tell you nobody owes you love doesn’t mean you need to be loved in order to be worthy of your life and happiness in it… as far as you can be happy without being loved but you know, another matter.

It is the basic level of respect everyone deserves; the right to exist unless they pose a threat to other’s basic right to exist.

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