People who date for their families and friends rather than for themselves

There are people… The Normal Person*, who see marriage as a way to ensure better genes and financial position for the family. I am hoping this will die out eventually, as it is a past life trauma caused by the habit of political marrying, but people who think like this still exist. These people still date with the motivation of making an impressive match rather than marry out of love. They also believe that people who are in love with impressive people fake it to impress other people.

Now, there are also people who think that they are “advanced” and “loving” by telling a beautiful daughter that they don’t have to marry a handsome powerful rich guy to make their friends and family happy. That they’d be satisfied with just a regular Joe. While there’s nothing wrong in marrying regular Joe, there’s plenty of wrong in marrying him for the same reason people used to marry wealth: politically, to impress or satisfy your family and friends, rather than form a loving union between a man and a woman.

Women who act like they were at a shopping mall when they go out clubbing are probably there shopping for an impressive man. The more friends they’ve got mean the competition over who gets the best match (most impressive man) is on. They’re loud, they’re giggly, you get the idea. Women who are after something else don’t come off as if they’re there to impress family and friends, but rather the men they’re after. Their entire demeanor is different.

Your friends and family who think this way can make meeting your True Emotion Mirror near impossible if they keep keeping the people you’d actually genuinely love away from you because they wouldn’t want them in the family… Or if your friends would think that you’d be raising your bar too high for them to even attempt to match. If your taste in people and way of connecting with them is very different from those who you grew up with, (due to no fault of your own) you finding true love can be exceedingly difficult. (For your own sanity, please try and reach them through a pendulum.)

What you need to do, if your family and friends think that way (meditate on it), is to start purifying your soul connections and removing all karmic soulmates from it. It can be difficult tho, but if you don’t have a life at the moment, and it looks like you won’t have one, this is a good way to pass your time from now on. Learn to be selfish in who you call a friend and who you don’t. As I put it earlier: “I can deal with a zero of a friend, but negative numbers are too much to tolerate.”

Ban political marriers from your life if you want true love.

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