Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology – Soulmate Types
Destination Soulmate
These soulmates mirror each other’s principles and values exactly.
The three types of soulmates are a match to each other by their life values, their moral principles, and what they value in life in general. The True Emotion Mirrors and Precious Soulmates share very intricate, detailed principles, not identical between different pairings and groups, but identical to each pair or group. What makes a pair of True Emotion Mirrors a match to each other make them a mismatch to another pair of True Emotion Mirrors. One person’s eww, thus, is another person’s wow! It is important to remember that Destination Soulmates are YOUR ideal partner, but another person’s Destination Soulmate won’t necessarily like you (or your perfect counterpart) at all.
(Old term Exact Value Mirror may be a little misleading, considering it can be taken akin to a monetary value or exchange value, but it means life values and principles that perfectly match within pairs. I list it in case my old articles have failed to update.)
True Emotion Mirror
Romantic partners whose life’s principles, values, decisions, interests, life goals, sexual fetishes, career goals and ambitions match that of their partner. The ultimate soulmate, the unsurpassable romantic connection that is bound by mutual complete love, not by mutual obligation to each other. The connection is based on a similar personality and matching values, not familiarity, co-dependence, fear, or survival instinct, like Trail Companion relationships are.
Doting Personality Mirrors
A demi-sexual pair or group of lovers who are somewhere in between the True Emotion Mirror and Precious Soulmate. They are not sexual with each other, but they are romantically involved, and NEIGHTER of the pair is sexually active – or at least doesn’t wish to be. They are in perfect alignment on this, both want a romantic non-sexual connection as their perfect ideal, AND their interests and way to be mirror each other exactly. (They could be named True Emotion Mirrors, but due to the non-sexual nature of the connection it would unnecessarily direct searches to sexual content and it’s just not their thing.)
Precious Soulmate (2nd Tier Destination Soulmate)
A non-sexual connection between friends and family members whose life’s principles, values, decisions, interests, life goals, and career goals and ambitions match each other perfectly, even when they “don’t match”: “I don’t even WANT TO be linked to you for all my life!” “I don’t, either! See you in another lifetime when we’re young again, bestie!”
The Precious Soulmate is the same thing as a True Emotion Mirror except for the sexual and romantic connection, OR a sexual connection that is MEANT TO BE temporary, and is seen as such equally by both partners. One day, they’ll just part ways painlessly and in perfect harmony.
Savage Spirit Mirrors
A pair or group of friends or lovers who agree on a random number of things and disagree on an equally random number of things, but they see perfectly eye-to-eye on ONE THING ONLY: “We are committed to each other 100% and are entitled to test this commitment in any way we want, brutality not excluded.”
The Savage Spirit Mirrors’ principles match ONLY by their devotion and commitment to their relationship and can be 100% at odds otherwise. This is for the Young Soul* ONLY and is ENTIRELY too hard-core for the Old Souls*. It is important to recognize the difference between an inflated the Young Soul* and the Old Souls* relationship, which is highly intense and volatile and has NOTHING to do with this connection as much as the Young Soul* would like to think that way. (If you identify your Savage Spirit Mirror incorrectly, you may well wind up in jail, so be careful with these ones.)
Trail Companions
These people mirror each other’s principles partially. Every other relationship not listed above falls under a Trail Companion. They come in several subgroups.
Basal Principle Mirrors
Basal Principle Mirrors are basically the Old Souls* pairings who share their base values but not their OTHER, more complicated and personal values. They make very good couples and friends but lack the fiery love and sexual compatibility of the True Emotion Mirror and the eternal bond of the Precious Soulmates.
Spousal Soulmates
What the general public believes “soulmates” to mean. Two people who have married each other over several lifetimes but who are not a 100% match; a functioning, good couple, but not True Emotion Mirrors. They are often Basal Principle Mirrors, but not always.
Main Trap Relationship
The Main Trap Relationship forms between a Old Souls* and the Young Soul* and is born from a deep misunderstanding between the pair. Often referred to as a “karmic soulmate,” for the Old Souls* considers the connection toxic and abusive and needs to be broken off (and I agree), even though the Young Soul* does not.
This is a mutually boring relationship for as long as the Young Soul* doesn’t imagine it’s true love. If they believe they’re fully loved, they’ll try to make it into a Savage Mirror Spirit relationship and it will turn into an abuse trap.
Vaporizing Lust Mirror
You share an ‘unacted upon’ desire for each other. This type of connection (itch) will go away once you scratch it. It can last years in the unscratched state and vanish in a week if acted upon. Great for single and polyamorous people, terrible for monogamy.
Confusing INDIVIDUALS who are NOT necessarily YOUR TrEmoR but will feel like it
In Twin Flame Concept, these individuals would probably be called False Twins.
Libertine*
These people are basically seduction masters, either male or female; they know their way around the opposite gender. They obviously DO have a True Emotion Mirror of their own, and that person is ALSO inevitably a Libertine*; irresistibly desirable. Libertines* are basically the “can have anybody” type that sometimes baffles the understanding of those of their same gender who are trying to see where the attraction is. “What does that guy have that I don’t” sort of question. THIS I could teach how to become one if I wanted to waste time on it, but True Emotion Mirrors cannot be taught.
The Messiah Mirror
The one bringing salvation to the masses, giving people (or you) the permission to be who you authentically are, without judgment, while not necessarily loving you for your choices like a True Emotion Mirror would. Some people are both Star Studs and Messiahs, such as Russell Brand. Their love for you is authentic but not necessarily personal. They love men for the virtue of being male and women for the virtue of being women, but not necessarily in the sexual sense of this category.
Soul Enemies
Also know as karmic soulmates, soul enemies are people tied to you with an unhealthy, mostly a narcissistic bond. They can be mutually felt but most often one-sided fixation on a superior rival that threatens the ego (idea of self, in this case, positive idea of self) of the Soul Enemy by simply excising in their life.
Clarifications
There are some points that I wish to make clear about the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology that have come up over the years. These may feel obvious to the Old Souls* but will have to be explained to the Young Soul*, whose starting point to everything is vastly different from the Old Souls*. Also, the Old Souls* may want to read this so they don’t get bamboozled into relationships with the Young Soul* who insist they have understood these definitions better than you have.
This is not a personality test despite the word “personality” in the title.
Every individual person can belong to several categories of soulmates with a different person (sometimes even one and the same). NOBODY is just one soulmate type. This is not a personality test; this is a relationship “test,” or rather, a typology. The word “personality” in the title doesn’t mean a personality test but a relationship between two people and their personalities.
True Emotion Mirrors and Precious Soulmates are not a group you can copy from a list of traits to become one.
I am not writing a seduction guidebook (despite my many, many TrEmoRs). This is not “a how to win the love of anyone you want” guidebook, which also means that I could not, even if I wanted to, describe True Emotion Mirrors or Precious Soulmates as a group that you can copy and mimic, and then become one. It would be easier for a man to turn into a woman, and a woman to transition into a man, than for anyone to “become a True Emotion Mirror” because non-matching True Emotion Mirrors have even less common than males and females have accurate stereotypes.
You either ARE someone’s True Emotion Mirror, or you’re not.
Although True Emotion Mirrors seem rare, they are not quite as rare or impossible a match as what they sound like. Having said that, you either match or you don’t, but either ARE a match to someone or you are not. There’s nothing you can do about it, nothing worth trying at least, especially if the other person seems reluctant to make a connection. Now, this is something that will have to be explained to the Young Soul* and the Old Souls* very separately, as their starting point is the opposite. In the sense that the Young Soul* understand it: No, you cannot CHANGE to become someone’s True Emotion Mirror. The way the Old Souls* understand it: Yes, there is an infinitely small possibility you may become someone’s True Emotion Mirror if one of you changes (or grows) to become an authentic match to you. (the Young Soul* take an infinitely small theoretical chance of something possibly happening in the fringes of this universe as a clear sign it is just bound to happen TO THEM, but it is still a possibility big enough worth mentioning to the Old Souls* who know where to categorize that chance. But that chance is categorically outside the Young Soul*’ realm of possibility, simply because their way of falling in love is exactly the opposite of what is required for a Old Souls* (True Emotion Mirror) to fall in love.)
Rejection
There is a reason why True Emotion Mirrors sometimes “play reject” each other, but that is absolutely NO INDICATOR that IF someone rejects you, they’re a True Emotion Mirror to you. This should go without saying, but the Young Soul* are rejection junkies, which is also the reason why some the Old Souls* have taken to playing rejection/hard-to-get/cat-and-mouse games with their True Emotion Mirror, when they should NEVER resort to these strategies if they want true love as it ONLY EVER works on the Young Soul* men and women… With MILD exceptions. (the Old Souls* can enjoy a little playful to-and-fro, but never a full-blown-cold-as-stone rejection game.)
the Young Soul* are rejection junkies, and being rejected SHOULD NOT BE TAKEN for a True Emotion Mirror sign because it is only a problem that needs clearing, not a SIGN of the connection. In fact, being a rejection junkie is a good sign of the Young Soul*, but not a sign of any kind of being a True Emotion Mirror, even though they do, sometimes, reject each other, but more often think they’ve been rejected when they haven’t been.
“Everybody will get what they want 100% of the time.”
There’s another misunderstanding. Everybody will get what they want, eventually, and 100% of the time, in the sense that they will GET IT down the line, but not in every INSTANCE of obstinant refusal to accept defeat. You will get your Committed Life Partner eventually, without any chance of that not happening, but that person might not be the one you’re currently hanging onto tooth and nail. The best way to know this: Is your supposed Committed Life Partner a Old Souls* or the Young Soul*? If they’re the Old Souls*, you’ll eventually lose them even if you have them now, and if you don’t or have lost them, you’ll never get them back. The quicker you accept this, the better. Now, if you’re the Old Souls* and let people go rather easily, know that this is not written for you. If they’re the Old Souls* and your True Emotion Mirror or Precious Soulmate for now if you don’t learn to pull your punches, you’ll lose them sooner or later to someone else, and they WILL find someone who knows how to treat them with love, care, and respect, this is an inevitability.
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*) Term changed after this post was originally written. Fractions of old terms may exist elsewhere in the post. Read about term updates.
**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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