Physiosexual Physioamorist

You should be aware that there are a lot of people who do not understand your way of being AT ALL. You should be ESPECIALLY careful in your dealings with work-colleagues. As you are both turned on and able to fall in love with a person’s physical presence alone, you are MORE THAN LIKELY to be the target of sexual harassment complaints at the workplace.

Now, this is not a FLAW per se, you just have to be aware of what makes you different to other people. Where you are focussed on someone’s familiarity, the security their constant presence gives you, and the natural sexual feelings that it arouses in you, many others don’t work that way. To them, it doesn’t matter they’ve known you for a century, they still won’t feel love or sexual arousal for you.

As far as work goes, you’d save yourself the danger of getting into trouble by sticking to temp jobs or working alone, if you find it difficult to control your feelings otherwise… Or make sure you work with other physiosexuals only, and learn to appreciate the fact sapioamorists won’t fall in love with you even though they might have sex with you.

You may be very confused about the concept of love, and you don’t know what makes people fall for each other. Therefore, you may start experimenting in a shoot-in-the-dark manner, gyms, money, power, etc. The true answer you’re looking for is either intelligence or another Physiosexual Physioamorist, your ideal solution.

There is something important for you to know about yourself, too. As a Physiosexual Physioamorist, you have no stop the Normal Person* when it comes to physical closeness. This means that if you have children, there is a high chance you feel sexually aroused by their physical presence and closeness. Therefore, you’ll have to be aware of this and either simply learn to curb your need to be “on the skin” of the people you love, but preferably learn to connect with someone on the intellectual level (without letting yourself fall in love or be turned on by that, too).

Should you be in a relationship with a:

Sapiosexual Sapioamorist

This is the worst deal for you both. You may fall in love with them for simply being there, but because you don’t see the need to intellectually connect with them, all the feelings you have for them will be one-sided. If they can’t escape you because you’re convinced they should be in love with you by now, they can get murderous trying to get away from you. You have nothing to offer them but you don’t understand why they feel that way – you’ve been there for so long, they should know you’re a keeper, right?

Sapiosexual Physioamorist

You may both love one another, yes. Still, if you never connect intellectually with a sapiosexual, they don’t find you attractive, at all. They may want a close friendship with you, but won’t accept a sexual relationship, as you are not likely to talk to them for long enough.

Physiosexual Physioamorist

Okay, now we’re in the safe zone. You two think alike (or rather, don’t over-think things), and you simply get familiar with each other and move from there. You know how you both work, so all is good here. Marriage material.

Physiosexual Sapioamorist

Now you may wind up having sex, yes, empty and meaningless to the Sapioamorist, but still good. You will never pin them down for a long-term relationship, however, no matter how long you sit with them, waiting. No matter how much you’d like to convince them that you’re there for them, no matter what. They don’t react to it, their heart is like a non-stick pan to your presence.

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