Polyandrous men can feel a type of… Fear of hidden female-to-female-attraction.

Naturally polyandrous (MFM) men are not particularly turned on or excited about the lesbian fantasy that both polygynandrous (MFMF) and polygynous (FMF) men can harbor. These two latter types connect to the poly fantasy that involves several women. Still, a polyandrous man doesn’t really enjoy that female bonding or female attraction any more than polygynous women like the male-to-male attraction that polyandrous men feel toward each other. While both genders feel quite connected to their own gender if they are polygynous women or polyandrous men, they don’t really like it when their gender reversed counterparts feel it.

Their natural partner is not attracted to the same gender, and that said, polyandrous women are somewhat put off by female-to-female attraction as well as polygynous men who secretly wish for a FMF threesome.

It is common for a polyandrous man to feel their woman is “stolen” by another woman, who also easily comes in between him and his children. It is common for polygynous women to feel more natural raising children together even if they are not in an actual relationship, but the neighbor’s wife can easily have more influence in the raising of his children than he does. This can be traumatizing. It may be that when a polyandrous woman finally comes to the scene, and things start looking entirely too good to be true, the men start feeling quite possessive of her – and namely, against women. They may fear that now that she’s been liberated to polyandry, it’s only a matter of time before she realizes she prefers women after all… Or too – which may not be much better news for a polyandrist man who has a somewhat limited attention span for women at the best of times.

It is also possible that a polyandrous woman who has trusted and relied on other women is predominately heterosexual as that’s what things look like; when they realize that other women are quite typically bisexual, she, too, can freak out a little. This is not so much homophobia as it is just a realization that they haven’t realized this is the way things may be, that they are the odd one out who doesn’t like other women in that way, and that they may now have to start rejecting women all the time, too. Polyandrist women are man-catnip, and most of their life is spent rejecting advances from men. They always thought of women as a safe haven where sex doesn’t become an issue. Thoughts are getting more liberal; that sanctuary will be all but gone soon.

Still, liberation is a good thing. We’ll just all have to find our own groove and learn to trust that everybody’s own way is their right way… Then, we’ll just have to come up with some traffic rules. ;p

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