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Polyandrous women have a host of coping mechanisms for losing their True Emotion Mirrors.

For us polyandrous women, the ability to let go of the men we love has been an essential life skill to learn in monogamous societies. You know you can only have one, and basically, you’re just waiting to find out which one of them will risk being made into a fool when your other True Emotion Mirrors come around. Then, there’s the guy who plays the long game – he’ll step in when the rival suitors give up for one reason or another. Once she’s too old to be desirable, once the others give up the race and marry someone else, once some of them kill each other out in a duel over her… You know?

Polyandrous women let go of their submission to monogamous ideologies; we can only marry one, right? Therefore, the more True Emotion Mirrors you’ve got, the easier it is for you to let go of true love… Out of true love. “Your happiness is more important to me than mine.”

Polyandrous men have more. They equate the “fun girl” and the “wife” in two separate categories: entirely different relationships. You do THIS with one and THAT with the other. Wives are respected, whores are for fun… Even if your true feelings were with the whore, they feel so good that avoiding the USE or THOUGHT of the words “love” or “respect” in terms of the whore is all it takes to fool oneself into believing the whore isn’t your actual true love.

They’ll muster up anger and hurt when they realize they are not the only ones. They intellectually replace their true feelings with resentment and bitterness in order to entertain the concept of monogamy as expected. In truth, polyandrous men love other men in the mix. Still, in our monogamous societies, we find it difficult to wrap our minds around the idea of polyfidelity – especially between several men and one woman.

(Mind you, the highest percentage of men are naturally polyandrous, and the lowest number of women are polyandrous. The majority of women are polygynous, and the minority of men are so. The rest are polygynandrous, or perhaps there’s a real monogamist or two out there, too.)

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