Potato sack people; acting like a pathetic child.

the Normal Person* and the Savants* behavior is somewhat fluid at times. Some of it is learned, and some of it changes when people are with people they trust. A normal the Savants* can turn into the Normal Person*when they feel they’re with their True Emotion Mirror or their Precious Soulmate, and they may turn a little needy and pathetic with them. Sadly, needy and pathetic rarely wins over either a True Emotion Mirror or a Precious Soulmate.

The Normal Person* love people for their weaknesses; the Savants* love people for their personality, creativity, skills, and talent. The Normal Person* will always try to look for love by acting as pathetic as they can without losing the job or position they already have. The Savants* would never show their vulnerabilities to a person they want to charm and attract – they might, eventually, but they would never assume that being pathetic will win them love… Because it doesn’t win love from them.

Therefore, the Normal Person* try to appeal to your nurturing instinct when they try and find love from you, especially if they feel nothing else is working. They’ll act hurt; they carry on about whatever sorrows they think will win them sympathy forever, and no matter what you say will cheer them up. I call them “potato sacks” because you have to keep picking them up before they slump back down again – endlessly. Eventually, the Savants* just get frustrated and angry – not enamored and softened like the Normal Person* wish them to.

Now. If you love the Normal Person*of person, you’ll need to know that their pathetic act is meant to get your attention and to melt your heart. Unfortunately, it is the HARDEST THING IN THE WORLD for a Savants* actually to LOVE someone acting all pathetic. They also HATE having to constantly boost someone’s mood because it’s tiring and exhausting, perhaps because we don’t know how to do it with the Normal Person*. We don’t really know what they want, with that; being grown people and all, and the Normal Person* love to be a riddle, so they won’t tell! The Normal Person* also recognize you to be in love with them only if you occasionally act hurt and pathetic around them because of something they did or didn’t do for you.

However, when it’s someone who you GENUINELY don’t love, and know you never will, you may have to learn a strategy to turn off the Normal Person* wishes that this will work for them. Most of us will turn cold toward the Normal Person*to show there’s no sympathy to be gained here. That, unlike to a Savants*, doesn’t mean “no sympathy” but “you’re not yet pathetic enough; I don’t BELIEVE you love me yet.” When a Savants* acts “high and mighty,” they’re signaling: “I’m not interested in you,” whereas when the Normal Person*people are acting “high and mighty,” it means “you’ve offended me, you need to ask for forgiveness/show more love.” Therefore, acting cold and indifferent toward the Normal Person* won’t bring fast results with them… Just as acting pathetic and needy with the Savants* won’t bring you love and acceptance.

This the Normal Person*pathetic behavior may well be a reaction to not having received enough nurturing as a child. I don’t know. It does require unconditional love to be fixed, but the place to find it is not with a Savants*, even their True Emotion Mirror. A True Emotion Mirror can drop their package for a while; they can show their weakness and their exhaustion for a while, even for a good spell of it, but not forever. I also feel like it is normal for even a Savants* to feel like dropping all their baggage the moment they meet their True Emotion Mirror “and sleep for two weeks” as if they’d just gotten back home from a grueling, long trip and need to sleep off the jet lag. But… Once they’re revitalized, they should be alright again.

In the Normal Person*, they act like this with everyone, all the time. They try and rely on any kind stranger that they come across, online, offline, whomever doesn’t spit on them at sight, so to speak.

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