Protect your reputation from praise you don’t like.

Different people have different value systems. As far as your reputation goes, the worst thing possible is to have someone sing your praises, focusing on virtues you don’t hold. For instance. Someone might be super impressed by how you “control” or “use” men. In truth, you do the exact opposite, and that’s why men love you, trust you, and do as you tell them to. When a person who admires you for controlling men talks you up, they’re going to tell people you’re a man-user, when you would NEVER.

Don’t allow people to praise you for values you don’t hold or agree with, even the benign-sounding stuff. Don’t allow your PR team to say how much you want a family when in truth, you’d rather pull off your fingernails than have children. If your True Emotion Mirror hears you lamenting for a family when she or he couldn’t want one any more than you do, they’ll just turn away from you. Even if you’d wind up wanting a family together, they’d think you always wanted children, rather than that you changed your mind because she or he was the right one.

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