Psychic conversations – when someone you love is being used as a mouth piece.
If you go ahead and try connecting to your spirit guides or your Precious Soulmates, or your True Emotion Mirrors in spirit, please be aware that there are some dangers and caveats to consider before and while you’re doing it. One of them that I’m going to cover in this post is this fact: Not all of what you hear through clairaudient hearing is true or said by the person that seems to be saying it. That is scary and annoying but a fact we all need to live with and deal with.
Me, for example.
I’ll use my own situation as an example once more to explain ONE possible scenario. I first tried to contact my spirit guides, and 4 women and 1 male voice responded. They were all unrecognizable to me, so I treated them as begins of higher knowledge out of presumption. This was a mistake. The women were my mother and 3 female friends, and the one male voice is still unknown to me, but presumably “my Twin Flame,” as in one of my True Emotion Mirrors. (I also feel he might represent a bunch of my True Emotion Mirrors as he’s somewhat a “stripped down” version of them all, he has the same core of “my type,” but I’m veering off topic a bit.)
Not wise beings, after all.
Later, when I realized who my so-called spirit guides were, I was furious. NO WAY IN THIS EARTH would I have called for these people for spiritual guidance; knowing them quite well, not one of them possesses the information I needed to know. However, they were what I NEEDED, not what I wanted; information on HOW STUPID PEOPLE THINK. And I know how that sounds; I introduced them as “my best friends,” and now I call them stupid… Let’s say that the loudest one of them is, and she’s also very officially a former friend, and the rest are quite aware they are not what anyone would call “spiritual” and mainly remained around as moral support, not as “wise women.”
Uninvited guests who won’t leave.
Now, this particular former friend has taken over the conversation uninvited and against my will – but demonstrating her negative traits so blatantly that I can no longer ignore them as if the spirit decided to RAM IT HOME to me that this woman is not good for me. I’m saying this so you understand that whatever is happening to you has a good reason to be happening. So if everything seems weird to you, “This is not what I thought it would be like,” just assume you’ve dealt an advanced hand to figure out. 😉 I could go on at length to describe why I think my so-called spirit guides, which I dubbed My Miss Guides, are here, but that’s another post.
The True Emotion Mirror(s)
After these people, a bunch of men showed up, whom I quickly realized to be my True Emotion Mirrors (twin flame equivalent in my theory set that agrees that multiple twin flame -style connections may exist in polygamous form.) Out of them, for some reason, a “spokesperson” is picked, the guy who somewhat speaks for all of them but without pretending to be anyone else. He’s just the focal point – probably in the purpose of making him seem like the monogamous Twin Flame character because my Miss Guides still consider it to be one of their duties to force me into artificial monogamy and that I should choose one over the other. I won’t, but that’s what I think they think they’ll achieve here.
Now… My former friend often finds it that if she wants me to believe something or do something, her best option is to “make the spokesperson” to say it because whatever I hear in his voice, I’m going to perk my ears to. Therefore, sometimes he says unpleasant things that are out of his character to say, things that he immediately takes back if he notices his voice has again been used against me – and the stuff that I usually react to is him saying he’s here only to fool me into something, to test my ego, etc. This trick is so convincing that sometimes the other men believe he said it, and they can, too, turn against him for a moment before we all realize that damned, it’s not him again.
My former friend frequently uses my True Emotion Mirror’s mouth to run her own agenda.
She also often makes him put in a good word for her and makes it sound like HE WANTS HER and I to make up and be friends again. In fact, as I wrote it, he said convincingly, “I do,” but as soon as I accepted it (as it would be somewhat to his character to want people to reconcile when possible), he then smiled and shook his head: “Not me.” Another True Emotion Mirror of mine is often turned toward the spokesperson guy, whom he actually does love quite a lot, with a stern look on his face, watching him like a father watches his son, ready to discipline, with a constant worry… But also love.
My Miss Guides are headstrong and obstinate and, for some reason, completely incapable of seeing that they never had a horse in this race to begin with. They seem to be willing to use any dirty trick in the book to “win,” which means to either make me believe my True Emotion Mirrors are not real (but at the same time, if they are not real, neither are my Miss Guides, so those two things kinda cancel each other out and there’s another reason for them to be here, one that I haven’t figured out yet – but I don’t believe that to be the case, really). If they cannot make me believe they’re real, which also proves that they believe they are, they want to make sure that they’re included into our future plans. If they TRULY believed they were not real, why be so gun-ho about making it “to the team” as they see it – not the term I would use to describe what we are, although the unity and joined purpose apply.
So, needless to say, my Miss Guides have an agenda, and they’re willing to use whatever trick necessary – delay tactics included – to stop me from leaving them behind. Not truly to stop my relationship with my True Emotion Mirrors from going forward, they simply don’t want to be left behind, and they’d rather me NOT have my happiness with my True Emotion Mirrors than be left behind, but at the same time I am determined that this is about myself and my True Emotion Mirrors and not them, and they are very much crashing a party – which wasn’t the case when this first started, but their joined disrespect toward our privacy and relationship has changed my mind about it.
Take what you hear with doubt.
Having said that, here’s another rule I’d like you to follow as much as possible; whatever happens in spirit must be taken with some healthy criticism, right? Especially if your experience in spirit is about breaking up a relationship that is important to you; if you rely on the information you gained in spirit to break up a relationship with a True Emotion Mirror you’ve got in real life, such as you heard through psychic means that your husband is cheating on you – I wouldn’t act on it without physical life evidence and without bringing it up with him first, especially if you have no reason to think that would be happening.
However, often these conversations reveal something you’ve been aware of but just haven’t truly paid enough attention to in real life. When you think about it, you realize, “well, okay, it matches with their behavior – explains a lot.” When it EXPLAINS a lot, it’s good information, but when it seems just to represent something you previously trusted fully in a different, negative light… Dubious. Seek more physical evidence. Consider these type of conversations “an anonymous tip” that you have to verify in real life.
Untrustworthy spirits want blind faith and loyalty – for a reason.
You know that someone is untrustworthy when they are UNWILLING to prove anything to you, take your doubt as an offense, and refuse to provide evidence to make their claims. They ask you to do things that require FAITH in them, require personal risk, and blind following of their words against your better judgment. This is how fake gods and fake guides do their bidding; they request unconditional love, blind trust, and faith so they can pass illogical ideas to you as the truth. This is how rubbish religions are born, accepting anything a disembodied entity tells you as the God-given truth.
The fact is that people lie in spirit just as easily as they lie in person. Some people are honest to the bone, and these same people tend to be gullible almost to the bone. If you’re honest, you’re more in danger of believing bullshit than you would be if you were dishonest and a liar yourself. If you’d consider a person honest in real life, they’ll be honest in spirit, as well, and if you think someone is a liar in real life, they’ll lie in spirit, too – but often with a disguise to boot. A liar will take the form of a God to tell you what they want you to believe – and you’d be wise to see that. A God will provide you with evidence, but at the same time, what is enough of evidence of a God is another matter. (I don’t actually believe in actual gods anymore; may that be a clue to you. If everything in this world happens as an automatic “everyone will get everything they want eventually,” a God may be taking credit for a law of nature.)
Taking credit.
Speaking of taking credit, my Miss Guides often throw in a “yeah, we saw that coming” or “we made that happen” after something nice happens. I rarely react, but there are things that they DO DO, quite obviously, rarely positive things, however.
Blackmail and torture.
You’d be surprised to know that malevolent spirits can also use torture and blackmail strategies and hostage situations to sway you to agree to whatever – to make you make a deal with them down the line. I’m not speaking of Satan, by the way, or any of the demons, but rather regular people in spirit who are simply running out of options to control you with. The danger here is that when people believe they are within their rights and they are “saving you” from something, they can give themselves permission to lie to you, to blackmail you, to threaten you – out of what they think is love for you. I’ve also noticed that my Former Friend especially will treat me like a pin cushion for as long as she thinks we’re friends, but if I momentarily make her agree we’re no longer friends, she can no longer do those things to me, because she now knows she’s out of line and out to HURT ME instead of “guiding” me. In many ways, she’ll treat me better as my mortal enemy than what she ever would as one of my best friends.
Real life.
My Former Friend has, by the way, put her own words into our mutual friends’ mouths in real life, too. Like she may “report speech” from a mutual friend that she has CLEARLY said herself. She may not even notice she’s doing this: She vents her own feelings to a mutual friend, then somehow mixes it up in her head that ok, now Mutual Friend agrees with her, and reports it back to me as “Mutual Friend said…”. I feel offended, surprised, and shocked to hear that Mutual Friend would say something like that, but I trust my Former Friend to be telling me the truth, because in her mind, at least, she is.
I believe this is one of the reasons an obvious real-life True Emotion Mirror relationship got mixed up because she kept reporting HER views to me as his and her views of him to him as mine. And she also has an uncanny ability to misquote people, too, and represent others’ ideas in the worst possible way and then think she’s accurately reporting what other people feel about each other.
Smoke and Mirrors go both ways.
Now… The spirit knows what it’s doing, tho. Or, the outcome, at least, will be worth all the drama, I believe. There are traps in place for the liars, too, if only you don’t fall into theirs. We get what we want, and most of us want to get what we deserve, and sometimes, getting what we deserve winds up in punishment of our bad habits, right? If you’re too gullible, you’ll be punished, too lazy, punished, too selfless, too selfish… Punished. You get the idea. For as long as you don’t know how to navigate your life, you’ll get a punishment – you’ll even be punished for too much obedience and trust in “a higher power.”
Everyone will get their dues as a natural consequence of naivety and stupidity, which is sometimes called “karma.”
You will get yours, too.
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