Quiet and shy people don’t exist.

There is something you need to understand: Even if you’re known someone for A LONG TIME doesn’t mean you know them well. If that person is “the quiet type” you don’t know what they’re thinking in there. There are people who think only when they speak, and that there is no internal dialogue going on in their head while they’re quiet. If you’re like that, you may not realize that while another person is quiet, they may still be “talking” to themselves. This means that whatever they are not saying out loud, they are still aware of, and that “talk” in their head is MORE WHAT THEY ARE than what you hear them talk about.

It is less dangerous to think you know someone who talks a lot quite well. They may be one of those people who only think while they speak – and that means that some people can also talk A LOT to stop themselves from thinking anything too deep, meaningful, or anything we’re ashamed of. They may oppress things by talking over themselves.

The fact is, there are no “quiet and shy” people in this world. There are only people who are quiet in YOUR company, but who talk a lot with other people. We all turn talkative when we are in a company that we feel we are in sync with. Therefore, if someone is quiet a lot in your company, it means they feel out of sync with you – not that they are “quiet and shy” as a person. If this is the case, you can rest pretty assured you don’t know them all that well regardless of the fact that you’ve known them for a long time.

You don’t know any quiet and shy people because if they’re quiet and shy around you, you don’t know their true thoughts. Secondly, quiet and shy people don’t even exist, so you can’t possibly know any.

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