Real or Fantasy – True Love at First Sight or just a foolish crush?

Here’s the interesting thing: I trust people to fall in love at first sight MORE than I trust them falling in love with someone nice they’ve gotten to know a bit. The reason is this: Your instinct can lead you to the right one; your soul recognizes its’ true lover (even if there’s a few of them) but attention received from someone hotter than you think would ever truly love you can mess with your head SO BAD.

Can they (you) talk without messing up your (their) idea of who they (you) are?

True Lovers, True Emotion Mirrors fall DEEPER in love with each other with communication. They may even find it exhilarating to find out new things about each other, even if it wasn’t what they expected. They LOVE each other, and it is mutual.

With crushes and obsessions that are based on fantasy, the partners cannot talk to each other without RUINING each other’s idea of who they are. The reality doesn’t match the expectation. This is why quiet people are in danger of being targets of false love; their partner is free to imagine things about them, and their words never contradict the fantasy. Their friends, family, and partners can basically write thought bubbles over their heads as they see fit, and they rarely if ever contradict them.

Wordless love is not something you should ever romantisize. It’s a certain way to get yourself hooked on someone who isn’t even close to being the right person for you.

Attention from someone hot or successful/popular can be intoxicating.

Watch out for ego reaction: If someone sexier-than-you-thought-would-ever-talk-to-you will give you even a little attention, it can be enough to make some people fall in love with them. If you didn’t feel the chemistry when you first looked them in the eye or didn’t really notice their existence until they talked to you and treated you nice; it’s not true love. If they’re above you on that love ladder, and their attention makes you feel like you **SCORED** be very hesitant to call it true love.

You would be right to avoid giving attention to people far ‘beneath you’ if you allow the expression, because you can completely mess with their head in that way. The more attention you give, the worse it is – the more naive the person seems, the more dangerous it’ll be.

Love at first sight; chemistry with a stranger; that’s the magic.

We have good instincts on us; our brain can interfere… But when you feel an instant chemistry and love with someone, and they seem to respond to you – THAT is the magic. That is what I’d trust. There’s no need to talk to that person. There’s no need to get to know them. You already do.

But do put it to test and let them talk. A True Emotion Mirror can talk shit to your face and keep talking after they stop talking, and you still know you’ll love them forever.

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