Real True Emotion Mirror problems: You make them feel unimportant, they’ll return the favor.

Now. When you’re with a True Emotion Mirror (or anyone close to that) there’s a lot of feeling invested in that relationship. If you make your counterpart doubt your feelings for them, they will more than likely conclude that their feelings are a lot stronger than yours, and they should probably reel back and forget about it. They still want that magical love, but they acknowledge they can’t have it with you, it seems… And they accept that and move on.

So. I’m not saying you cannot have a life after you find a True Emotion Mirror. What I am saying is that you have to keep them in the loop of what is going on in your life and your day. They maybe there waiting for you to turn up, and if you keep blowing them off, they’re going to believe you’re not there emotionally either.

Men tend to do this a lot. They say they want to be with you, but when the day or hour comes, they’re busy doing something else – without an explanation. Women can blow off plans, too, but they’re going to tell him what changed. And, because women do this, men don’t know what it feels like if they didn’t. You may not have an issue with them changing plans, neither do we, but what’s annoying is that you’ve planned your day so that you’re available for a date or whatever, but woosh, he’s nowhere to be found at the time. You message them and get an aloof: “Oh I’m just hanging out with a friend.”

And I am not even doubting this can be you actual True Emotion Mirror doing this.

So what do you do? Are you going to say how much you want to spend time with him on the weekend and then decide to go shopping with the girls instead? Your call.

Guys, you have to stop thinking that if you say “tonight” or “later today” or “tomorrow night” or whatever, that she’s going to forget that as if you never said it. It’s better to NOT PROMISE or say how much you want to do something at a given time than to change your mind on it. It feels really fucking icky, let me tell you.

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