Relationship blog for PICKY & CHOOSY people

To my target audience, these are things romance is MADE OF, but to the people this blog is NOT written for, these are the things that GET IN THE WAY of a romance:

• Looks. My people want the 9’s or 10’s, or 8’s with a great sense of style. (Your aesthetics may not be the same as everyone else’s, but you KNOW WHAT YOU LIKE, and you want permission to reject people based on their looks. (You’ve got MY permission.))
• Intelligence. You want people whose intelligence matches yours to a high degree. (Your problems will be the same kind so you can relate, also, you’ll be able to TALK ABOUT THINGS in the way you feel understood and connected.)
• Interests. You would prefer spending your life with someone with whom you have more in common than just the stage show you’re playing in.
• Fitness/health levels. You want someone who views health and fitness about the same as you do.
• Ambition. You feel a SIMILAR level of ambition is a good thing to consider in a relationship, and DO NOT THINK it is a great setting that one person does all the ambitious work while the other merely supports the other one’s work. You want someone to SHARE an ambition with.
• Respect and admiration. You want someone who you can genuinely respect and admire… Intelligence, skills, and morally speaking.
• Sexual compatibility. Last but perhaps the most important part; sex is important to you and you want to make sure that your next relationship is BASED ON SEX. (It makes NO SENSE starting a sexual relationship, potentially a monogamous and life-long one at that, without basing it on sexual compatibility. And I’m going to go in DEEP with this one. DETAIL. I’ll also explain to you how OTHERS view their sexual tastes, so you can avoid stuff others are not even self-aware enough to know they’re subconsciously looking for in you – be it a compatibility thing or incompatibility thing.)
• Spiritual awareness. In all honesty, I speak so much about spiritual stuff like reincarnation and soulmates that if you’re not at least open to them, this website is going to just annoy you rather than helping you.

If you feel these things DO NOT matter in a relationship, this blog will be very unhelpful to you.

Where healthy meets unhealthy

I have become acutely aware of a relationship type that is the ULTIMATE love relationship. The problem with this type of relationship is that it shows a lot of those red flag signs that we’ve learned to associate as a major sign of trouble coming. My job is to try and help you make a difference between when is something a sign of ABUSE and when it is a… True Emotion Mirror – so you can walk away from abuse and stick with a True Emotion Mirror – even when things look somewhat bad here and there.

Celebrities

I also have a specialized section for celebrities to navigate this and a few other situations that are generally speaking too specified to be blogged about on an open blog. Being in the public eye changes so many things that I want to address things from this perspective, particularly when celebrities are looking for true, lasting love.

Even if you don’t stick around, let me leave you with this

Whether you are male or female, YOU DECIDE what matters TO YOU in YOUR relationships. It’s nobody else’s business, particularly not the business of the person trying to force their will on you so you’d date/marry them instead of someone you effortlessly love. I don’t care if you want your prospective partner to have a natural green streak of hair, and you blatantly ignore and turn your nose up at everyone who does not have that specific natural green streak of hair – your business, your risk that such a person doesn’t even exist. Your life, your choice.

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