Sapiosexual Physioamorist

You fall in love with a person’s presence, in them having been there for you, giving you security and stability. You may not like them at all times, but they’ve been there, and that makes you fall in love.

You are sexually turned on by a person’s mind, however. You should know that. You may think you’re weird, but it’s simply called sapiosexuality.

You are not interested in the physical beauty of the body in any meaningful way. You’re sexually turned on by the mind, and romantically interested in body heat (basically), so you don’t really care what people look like (within reason). You might be interested in looks as an intellectual thing, as an adjunct to your sexuality. Fetish clothing maybe your thing.

Should you be in a romantic/sexual relationship with a:

Sapiosexual Sapioamorist

They love you for the way your mind works if they have gotten into a relationship at all. You both connect sexually through intelligence, but you may feel they are not really fully present with you otherwise, and they feel the same for you. They try to constantly talk smart to you, and that may, to you, meaning they are constantly trying to get laid with you when you just want to cuddle.

To them, however, intelligence is a part of everything they do, so they are smart, all the time. Which means you’ll be constantly turned on.

Sapiosexual Physioamorist

Your ideal match, obviously. They talk you into the bed, but also love the simplicity of life with you. They fall in love with your presence just the same as you love them for being there, the familiarity of it all. They, too, hide their intelligence from the public view like a physiosexual hides their privates, therefore, you are comfortable with them at all times.

Physiosexual Physioamorist

A Physiosexual Physioamorist is somewhat of an easy relationship. It may work if you like the way they think, but they won’t be affected by your intelligence the slightest. These are the people who insist that intelligence doesn’t matter in a relationship. Therefore, they won’t bother talking intellectual or deep topics with you, so they’ll have difficult time turning you on, while they, themselves are turned on by the mere sight of your naked body.

Physiosexual Sapioamorist

Now, the trouble with a smart Physiosexual Sapioamorist for you is that they fall in love through intelligence but they don’t connect that to sexuality. Therefore, they may talk smart to you until your socks are spinning, while they, themselves regard this to be talking about the weather – nothing sexual AT ALL in it.

If you engage them on the intellectual level, they may fall in love with you, but they’ll make love to your physical body but love your mind. They won’t understand why they should love you for being there, though, and they may leave you insecure outside the bedroom. As they love through intelligence, they want to talk to you constantly, which makes you think they want sex constantly, and when they want sex, they don’t want to talk much, which is, again, your idea of marital sex hell.

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