Sapiosexual Sapioamorist

You are completely mentally aligned to others. Not only do you fall in love with a person’s mind, which is rather common, really, you are also literally sexually turned on by their intelligence and the way their mind works. If you don’t have ANY shred of physiosexuality in you, you are potentially living a very DIFFICULT life…

Everyone who you are both sexually and romantically interested in must be truly special. When people accuse you of having a commitment phobia or intimacy issues, tell them that no, in fact, you’re a sapiosexual sapioamorist.

However, there is something you should be aware of. You may be having trouble connecting with people due to your sapio/sapio leaning. If you are also bisexual, then… OMG. You’ve got something to deal with.

Essentially, whenever people sway from the safe, impersonal topics of weather, school work, everyone’s kids, you feel either romantically or erotically aroused, or both. Therefore, you may be absolutely militant around others who want to talk about other (deep) topics in a platonic setting. Explain to others, that seeing other’s minds, to you, is the equivalent of a Physiosexual’s striptease show at a garden party. In contrast, you can be completely oblivious to your own body and it’s meaning to a Physiosexual. You may be prone to obesity as the body means so little to you.

You will also have to be aware of something rather serious. Because you are sexually turned on by a person’s mind, you may have huge troubles as a parent of a growing teenager if they want to emotionally connect with you as Sapioamorist Physiosexuals do. You may feel continually “hit on” by your own child, who seeks emotional support in you.

If you don’t connect with them emotionally, you’ll risk making them feel unloved by you, and if you do, you might feel like your relationship is profoundly inappropriate. If you can’t curb this and learn to emotionally connect with someone without being turned on by it, you probably should think twice before having children.

Not all children (teens) will find you difficult, but it is a roll of a dice, of course.

Should you be in a romantic/sexual relationship with a

Sapiosexual Sapioamorist

You understand each other perfectly, and now, the question is umm… How does fucking like rabbits sound like to you? For you to not turn each other on, you have to not talk to one another.

You’re also in love with each other’s minds… Works. This thing works.

Sapiosexual Physioamorist

Although you turn each other on through your minds, you might feel frustrated at the lack of romantic connection intellectually speaking. As Physioamorists fall in love through the physical presence of someone (being there) you may feel unappreciated or appreciated the wrong way. Physioamorists also tend to like (lavish) gifts and money as a token of love, which to you sounds abusive and manipulative, with the side bonus that your lover thinks you’re stingy and withdraw love and praise.

Physiosexual Physioamorist

Yeah, no. You two are like oil and water. Still, it doesn’t stop a relationship from forming if you have been locked in the same room with a Physiosexual Physioamorist for long enough. They both fall in love with the physical presence of another person and are turned on by physical closeness, so the likelihood of a workplace romance and sexual harassment from their part is absolutely super high. If they are not smart or are not really connecting with you intellectually on any level, which is more than likely, all you feel is disgust here.

Physiosexual Sapioamorist

Although you both fall in love with each other’s mind and personality, they stop talking when you’re headed toward the sexual area of life. They want to get into the zone, focus on instinct, body contact an the like, while you still want their mind active, and them talking. They find that distracting to the extreme, and the likelihood that you’ll get your sex to work is not high.

Best stay friends.

Because you hate being “probed”

Because everything to your type is kinda sexual or romantic, and you feel completely vulnerable in revealing anything (real) about yourself to anyone, and you don’t like signing up to things that might reveal something about you, I’ll add posts here for your type, without the need for you to log in. There’s nothing secret about them, it’s just that when a lot of people try to figure themselves out, I can reduce THEIR workload by separating them into groups.

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