Should you let polyamory mix your boundaries between True Emotion Mirrors and those who are not?

Yes. Let the boundary mix as much as feels natural. You basically don’t know which ones of the borderline people turn out to be perfect for you down the line. Just be real. Be possessive, greedy, whatever you truly feel. Allow your feelings to guide you, and talk about them in detail (if you’re a Savants*).

Stop rejecting people; just allow yourself to not respond to love that you don’t feel, if you know what I mean? Use your sexual orientation labels as “guidelines” rather than absolutes. As in, “you know, I probably won’t get excited, but you can try, hey?”

(Utopia: If you can arrange it, live in a community where you’re allowed to physically push people away if you don’t want their touch, but a place where genuine expression of feeling is 100% allowed, no matter what it is. Do this at least on Second Life; make my sim(s) a destination.)

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