Signs of a relationship that is simply NOT going to work.

Some of these seem like an obvious thing but trust me; they aren’t to all people.

In ALL relationships, including sexual and romantic:

• Significantly different IQ levels; 30 points difference, experts say, makes communication practically impossible. (Your “problems” nor your “joys” will ever seem valid or real to the other.)
• Same said differently: You can’t feel empathy/sympathy toward them, or they can’t feel empathy/sympathy toward you. This comes from your inability to understand each other due to your intellectual cap.
• Close friendships are difficult between people of different poly-leaning.
• A relationship between the Young Soul* and a Old Souls*. The closer the relationship, the worse it’s going to be. ALWAYS requires careful management. Only a parent-child relationship of this nature has a good chance of survival, but it’s going to get rocky. Good chance. Not a great one.

In sexual relationships:

• Incompatible gender identity and sexual orientation in the Old Souls*. (NO, their sexual orientation won’t change for you unless they’re in a closet, no matter how much you’re “not woke,” shame them.) the Young Soul* do not have a stable gender identity or sexual orientation, and they don’t understand those who do. (Still, trans-ideology is very the Cat Thinking, and the Young Soul* are trying to conform to non-conformity, but that’s another topic.)
• They want their significant relationship to be based on sex; you want it to be based on love, or vice versa. (Sexuality doesn’t necessarily cast out love, but love sometimes casts out sexuality, and that won’t work.)
• Wrong poly-orientation. If you are deep down a polygynist, and your partner(s) is (are) deep down polyandrist, or vice versa, the relationship won’t work. Same goes with other poly-leanings and monogamy.
• Different life values and goals, including fitness goals. Different religions may work, as long as the religions are either not that important for either partner or the rules of those religions are in alignment.
• If one or either one of you cannot be 100% themselves when you’re alone together.
• You want different things from the relationship.
• Non-True Emotion Mirror relationships with a Basal Principle Mirror* will work for as long as neither one of the partners has met their True Emotion Mirror.
• Entirely different view on the importance of physical beauty and triggers for sexual desire.
• A relationship with someone who has met or is aware of their True Emotion Mirror (who isn’t you). (They don’t have to know what a True Emotion Mirror is in order for them to never be able to be truly satisfied with anybody else.)

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