Signs you don’t know what love is.

1. When they don’t feel excited about the prospect of being with you, you blame them for a flaw instead of considering it may be you or that you are just not compatible.
2. You feel the need to hang onto whatever attention a member of your preferred gender has given you (at any age before).
3. You feel a certain annoyance about “everyone else getting to have a love affair,” but you are being “denied” or “left out” somehow, forbidden from having someone fall for you.
4. You feel particular annoyance over a specific individual not playing along and having the “wrong kind of attractions”; you disagree and criticize who they are interested in, because they’re not you, or they exclude you.
5. You try to JUSTIFY your RIGHT to a certain person by, for instance, reading Twin Flame signs or “what men or women want” instructions, finding that you should qualify, and feel this gives you RIGHTS.
6. You feel annoyed because you’re being overlooked, even when the person you want is single or not busy with anything.
7. You are frequently thinking of “buying love” especially if you are male.
8. You view “love” solely in the context of a monogamous marriage.
9. You feel “freedom” is a scary state and would prefer the security of a marriage.
10. You are focused on “a cute girl” or “a handsome” person and don’t care much about their personality or the differences between your personality and theirs. You mainly focus on how nice they would look next to you in public.
11. You still don’t know what love songs are about and find them… pretentious or fake or “entertainment”.
12. You feel marriage is largely a social thing, something to BE in your social circles, someone’s wife or husband.
13. You try to “learn” love, rather than just feel it.
14. You try to tell your loved one that they “have to” love you back because of your reasons and rationale for it.
15. You try to tell men or women NOT TO love someone else and try to “grow into” loving you instead.
16. You confuse the feeling of frustration with feelings of “love” and… “desire.” Basically, you feel a random set of feelings and associate them with “being in love.”
17. You feel like a fish out of water when you go out looking to date someone (and may have attached feelings to the closest thing you ever got to a relationship, even if it happened when you were 12).
18. You insist people who seem sexually and romantically confident are “immature players” to explain why you cannot get there – you’re more mature than them. (Newsflash: opposite.)
19. You are perfectly comfortable being one-sidedly in love because “you are the mature one” and “they are immature and don’t know what a good guy/woman you are.”

How to fix it?

Focus on getting your head out of your ass first. What I mean by this is that you have to stop thinking that the world owes you because you’ve managed to achieve some level of competence or you figure you’re “good enough” for a relationship. You most likely are… Technically. What you have is a horrible attitude going into a relationship. If the above fits, you are childish, self-centered, entitled, and immature. You have to start GIVING something, not just expecting yourself to be spoon-fed with manna from Gods, simply because you’re so awesome. NOBODY is that awesome. NOBODY!!! FUCKING NOBODY is so awesome, good-looking, attractive, or sexy, that they can just sit and do nothing when people flock to them with marriage proposals, not you, not anyone ever.

(Read Matthew McConaughey – Greenlights – Part Two: Find Your Frequency – He had a game, he was loved and liked, and then, he relied on his new red sports CAR to do his work for him. He quit making an effort and lost his charm. You have to BE FUN, for fucks sake, be fun, and don’t think you’re a loser if you try. Even TRYING to be entertaining and fun is better than just waiting for freebies.)

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