Some people are “born older” than others

I have quipped a few times that I’m not going to bother proving or arguing that we reincarnate. To me, this is such a strong no-brainer. I am not even sure if I could prove it, but I can certainly make some sound arguments on its behalf. For now, I’ll just throw in a few pointers and hope you can catch on quick.

My personal experience

I will tell you one of my stories of my personal life. This, to me, is quite a strong proof of reincarnation and illustrates the point I am about to make quite perfectly.

I was under the age of 3 years. I know this because my mother was pregnant with my brother who is 3 years younger than I am by a difference of a bit over a week. Lounging on a sofa, I started to think about cold chains on my skin. Whatever prompted this is beyond me, but I was thinking about it. I was thinking of chains and how good it would feel to be wrapped in them. I had some form of a sexual fantasy with a BDSM theme, completely unprovoked, out of the blue. And yes, I am sure this was unprovoked.

If this doesn’t freak you out, I tried to use a plastic c-cassette to mimic the coldness of the chains, but when that didn’t work, I tossed it away in frustration and thought… I still remember my thoughts: “Oh well, I’ll have to wait for a few more years until I’m old enough to have someone do that to me.” I was specifically thinking ‘until 15’, but how in the heavens name does a 3-year-old come up with something like that?! The only explanation I’ve got for it is a past life experience on BDSM. Stuff that I now remember with more clarity and understanding of what it was, but then had only a vague, hazy, still innocent idea of it.

This is my theory

My personal theory is that we have always been here, born first in the form of gas, as the Universe was born. Then, we reincarnated with every “upgrade” the physical world saw. Similar notions were also made by Buddha in some form if I’m not mistaken. (I don’t really know alternative spiritual philosophies that well, but I remember reading something along the same lines once.) I believe we are looking for our perfect way of existing out of ENDLESS possibilities. I believe that humans are akin to the latest technology, and each species each spirits’ favorite mode of being.

I believe for some spirits, being a cockroach or a rabbit, a lion or an alligator is their idea of absolute perfection. That’s why animals are so damned proud of themselves, they’ve found their perfect way of being, while humans are stuck with the latest tech that hasn’t reached their ideals yet. Some spirits have, while the rest of us are still restlessly trying to find a better way of being still.

The next Missing Link

What I also theorize is that we are reaching a point in which humans are going to split into several new subspecies. At least one of them is going to revert backward in evolution simply because they are now being dragged on by spirits who wish humans to be smarter and more of everything. Once the species separate, I believe this previous version of Homo Sapiens rapidly reverts towards less intelligent, less driven human, whereas the new human goes forward equally rapidly for no longer being pulled back by the less intelligent humans.

I believe something similar happened with the separation from apes to humans, explaining “the missing link”.

I believe the difference between these two groups is mainly a wish to belong to the top group or the more chilled group. If you felt offended, you’re probably going to join the latest tech folk whether you feel “smart” or not… And so you should. The remaining spirits should feel RELIEVED that the pressure to exceed oneself and keeping up with the Joneses is finally coming to an end.

Now that we have the background down pat…

I believe we develop at a different pace

As we are all here to find our perfect way of being, some of us have taken longer exploring different species and alternatives while some have always been driven by the biggest, baddest thing. I personally remember being a T-Rex (always after the latest tech) and only once do I think I might have been in an ape form while early humans were already here. I remember being suspicious of the humans, as they seemed dishonest. I didn’t want to join them, I remember something along those lines.

As some of us have more experience in being a) a social animal and b) being a human, we also react to things differently. I also believe that what we’ve been in our past lives affects the way we mate, for instance. I believe every experience we’ve had creates a different version of who we turn out, and humanity is the current melting pot of all of these awesome spirits that once were a variety of animals.

(Spirit animals? Mine is definitely a gorilla.)

Sexual maturity

Therefore, it is no wonder we all develop sexually in a different way. Some of us have lived a series of very sexually driven lifetimes prior to this, while others have lived very sheltered lives, possibly for the entire time they’ve even tried being human. I do believe there are people who reach sexual maturity potentially at the age of freaking six years of age emotionally, and some who will never reach it. I fully believe some people should never be pressured into a marriage that contains sexual expectations, due to them never fully maturing into emotional sexuality, even if their body is mature.

In my own circles alone, I can name a ton of people who are emotionally young teenagers at best. I remember once instinctively turning to tell a dirty joke to a 12-year old on my left rather than the 50-year old on my right because I knew the 12-year old was emotionally more capable of understanding the joke. I stopped myself in time but was amused by my own instinct. This 12-year old always felt like my equal even though, at the time, I was 35ish.

I believe we have to reconnect with our instincts to be better people to each other. We must learn to understand that authority should never be given based on a person’s physical age alone…

A few words about pedophilia

Having said that, I’ll just say quickly before I close up here… Pedophilia is a concern that we all must consider.

Although I say it may be a torture for someone starting to fantasize about BDSM at the age of 3 to wait until 16 to have sex for the first time, we must realize that due to this difference in emotional sexual age we CANNOT lump all children and all pedophilic experiences under the same grand flag. Ignoring any truth or a possible truth will lead to more harm than good.

For instance, if we insist no child is ever sexual, we give pedophiles the full range to decide that all children can be taught sexuality at a young age… THEY WILL KNOW, by experience, that some children ARE sexual at a young age. Therefore, your insistence, based on inexperience, that they’re not sexual, means nothing to a pedophile (molester). They know and won’t hide from THAT particular fact. Instead, they’ll potentially decide you know nothing and insist ALL children can be turned although that is also not the truth. This “truth” is then spread in the community as a reassuring “fact”, while the other camp spreads their own convenient “truth” about children’s non-sexuality.

This matter, is, of course, far more complicated than this, still. For one thing, for centuries young girls have been trained to flirt with grown men without a real affection for them to ensure an early, beneficial marriage. This trained habit comes out in some children who “seduce” grown men out of learned habit… Fooling even some of the most conscientious pedophiles, who would never knowingly hurt a child, to think this child knows.

But this entire topic is so diverse and huge I’ll delve into it another time.

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