Spirit won’t guide you, lest you know what you want.

All signs and spirit guidance in life require a clear goal. If you don’t know where you’re going, you will ignore signs pointing out ‘left here’ or ’30 km to Swanston.” If you don’t know where you’re going, why would you turn? You have to know what you want for the spirit to be able to guide you.

Before you know that you want to be a nurse, you cannot be a nurse.

Imagine these stories: “Oh I always wanted to become a nurse, but I felt I couldn’t take the time to train as one; it was too expensive, time-consuming and my family needed me. Then, one day, out of the blue, without me even asking, this woman told me, out of context, that their hospital just got a permit to train their own staff while they get paid to work, which was a huge relief to them because they’d been understaffed for years. It felt like a sign.” Key point: “I always wanted to be a nurse.”

Even if you’d be good at nursing but have never wanted to be one, you’d take that information as just a conversation, even if it came out of the blue and without you asking. It wouldn’t BE a sign meant for you. However, that doesn’t mean that the spirit didn’t organize these two to meet so that this person could give the aspiring nurse the exact information she needed without acting completely weird doing so.

Therefore, you can’t read the signs before you know what you want. They’re pointless to you. Even if the spirit tried to give you opportunities to go in a certain direction, you’d ignore the signs if you hadn’t processed your dreams ready.

You won’t see the signs until you know what you want.

Me, for instance. Whenever I started seeing a guy, there was a best friend or a brother I also fell for or fell for harder than the one I started seeing. After I figured out that I was naturally polyandrous, I didn’t realize how the Universe had tried to bash it into my thick skull and trick me into sleeping with the other one or turning away from monogamy.

Then again, someone might have interpreted it as a temptation; if I were the kind of cheating on my men, which I’ve never been into, it would be interpreted as a temptation to cheat and an opportunity to prove I’ve grown. Instead of being tempted to cheat, I just thought, “what is this crap?!” to the point I started taking precautions to check a new boyfriend’s friends and brothers before getting too serious with him. Then, I realized it didn’t help anyway because the hot best friend stayed out of sight until I made my move on the other. Spirit really wanted me to wake up and smell the roses.

I laughed when I realized how THICK the signs were laid out and how blind I was to them before I realized what it was that I truly wanted.

The spirit doesn’t want you to be modest. God might.

Remember, the spirit functions based on giving you everything you want. The spirit can’t work in your life if you don’t admit to wanting anything or you’re like: “oh, I don’t know, whatever you have is fine. Whatever you can spare… Poor ol’ me.” The Universe goes, “Well, we’ve got… Everything… And a lot of everything. It’s just sitting there, anyway. There’s too much of it for a measly 8 billion people anyway. So just ASK, mothafucka.”

Then you go: “Oh, those two there seem awfully in love.” The Universe goes: “SO you want to find love like that too?” You go: “No, I want him.” The Universe goes: “Well, fuck, you know, THAT is the only thing we can’t give you; they are each other’s dream. We can find you love like that if you want, tho.” You go: “No, I just want to break them up.”

The Universe goes: “Well, you know, they really want to stick together and want their love to be tested, so… You go right ahead.” (The problem here is that the more you love someone, the easier it is to let them go thinking it was too good to be true anyway… You get the chance to feel powerful, and they get a reason to figure out how did they screw up a perfect thing.)

The guidance starts once you know what you want.

Once you know what you want and where you’re going, you’ll start feeling guidance that, granted, by my experience, is a collection of helpful spirits’ interference at times. But whichever way it works, I believe it is in alignment with whatever it is that you truly want.

Also, I think the spirit, the collective consciousness, has a good idea of what you, or others in your position, want and tries to give it to you. Still, if, for whatever reason, you don’t want it, “it would be immoral” or “my friends would think I’m weird,” you’ll simply reject it. Basically, the spirit cannot give you anything you are not open to receive… and you won’t read signs pointing you to the direction that you deep down wish to go.

The Law of the Truest Wish.

I have also identified another law; your Truest Wish is always protected by The Law. This means that for as long as it’s possible for you to get what you want deep down, the spirit will always keep you in a position where you can change direction in midlife. However, if you want it while you’re still young, and you’re too old now… There’s a problem.

Sometimes people are so lost in what they want they fall into a deep depression first, for years… Then, they get this moment of epiphany. “OH GOODNESS!” They become more positively thinking, and for the first time in years, they seem happy and bang on a whim, they shoot themselves in the head. This means they simply figured the fastest, easiest route to what they truly want is reincarnation, whether they did this consciously or not. Maybe they figured out what they wanted and knew they couldn’t have it in this lifetime; without even knowing they would have it in the next, they shot themselves into that dream. (Don’t ever do that before you know what it is that you’re missing; otherwise, you’ll just go back to where you started from.)

Depression, to me, is a state where your body goes due to prolonged unhappiness. Its purpose is to stop you from fussing about unimportant things and focus on contemplating why you’re so unhappy. What is it that you want out of life?

Clinging onto your most likely source of happiness can keep you from what you TRULY want.

Some people pin their hope on the closest possible source of happiness, let’s say, a married man who seems interested in you. In truth, he may not be available at all, but many people kind of pin their hopes on someone unattainable, partly to prolong the period of feeling hopeful, even if, deep down, they know they’re never going to get the guy. The purpose of this is truly just to push depression away because admitting what you truly want is so scary and so unlikely to be given to you that it’s easier and nicer to hang onto something that even you know is unlikely to ever be yours.

However… If that person would revamp their wishes… Instead of saying: “I want this guy to confess he loves me,” they should think: “I wish someone available to me would love me back for once… For the rest of my life, even.” It’s not an outlandish freaking thought unless possibly you’re hoping for an actual prince. (Even though even actual princes have been known to fall in love from time to time.)

It’s not only knowing what you want but daring to admit it – even to yourself.

Another blockage to our spiritual guidance is not being bold enough to admit what it is that you actually, truly want. You may fear you’re a megalomaniac or a narcissist thinking you are worthy when you’re not, or that you’re a sick pervert or a childish romantic or both, or your dreams are stupid or unevolved, so you downplay your true desires. There may be other reasons for it; you may be spiritually connected to people who you feel are PRYING on you to confess to a wish they can exploit, so to speak… So you’re not confessing to your actual dreams, feeling your frenemies are just ready to bounce on them. If this feels like it might be you, wish this: “I wish guidance and help to clear my spiritual circles from people who don’t belong in it.” This is often the first step before honing into the actual Truest Wish.

Impossible dreams… Well. Nearly.

Most of our unhappiness comes from the feeling that we’re not worthy or we’re unable to get what we want out of life. We were born too far from Hollywood, or the mining town folk you’re growing up with really doesn’t care about poetry. The Christian community you live in doesn’t appreciate your science, that sort of thing. Still, there’s a possibility you truly love a challenge. Still, for any challenge to become even theoretically fun, you’ll have to know what it is that you actually want and why and have even the smallest faith it will be possible. Without that faith, you can’t even be motivated to start trying, can you?

Divine guidance is there to help you navigate toward your dream from a difficult or impossible place… It won’t happen without you putting in the effort: it is GUIDANCE, but you’ll still be the one doing the walking. The signs and feelings of guidance won’t happen until you figure out what it is that you want…

How to define what it is that you truly want?

I have found a marvelous way to help your unconsciousness work faster in bringing your true desires to your everyday consciousness. Use a random image generator similarly to Tarot or ink blot cards. I’ll explain here how to use random images to figure out what it is that you truly want.

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