Spiritually speaking: if you want to know who someone genuinely loves, make sure they have enough money and free hands to choose.

There are two big reasons why people choose to live a life with people they don’t truly love: Lack of opportunity to live with people they love and lack of money to be able to not depend on a person they don’t love. Money is a huge motivator in remaining in a relationship; your money and their money. Suppose they can’t comfortably live alone or they know you cannot comfortably live alone. In that case, the relationship persists out of compassion toward a fellow human rather than out of true love for that person.

Spiritually speaking, you can only trust the love of a person who knows they could have any of your rivals, but they choose you, and a person with whom you do not have a financial dependency one way or another. BOTH conditions must be met. They must have the opportunity to trade up and the money to leave you if they want (without financially crippling you or themselves).

In spirit, people may create situations testing their soulmate’s love… To that end:

Free choice is what matters.

Beggars can’t be choosers, whether they’re begging for love or money. A choice made out of necessity or lack of opportunity to choose differently is no real choice at all. Wish for them to have REAL choices if you want to know how they truly feel about you.

Make sure they can choose anyone; make sure they know you love them and want them, and wish for them to have all the love offers they could possibly need to choose the person they want the most. Give a person open doors and they’ll choose what they want. Then, you just have to live with the knowledge, and that can be difficult.

The third reason is that they have a child with someone they don’t love (anymore).

It’s unlikely we’d ask money from a person we truly love.

Never think that a person would GO TO THE PERSON they love most if they need money from them. A person may go to the person they know who cares less about money or a person who they don’t mind taking advantage of financially. It is UNLIKELY a person will go to the person they love the most if they are broke; nobody wants to be a financial burden to someone they love and respect. They may also not want a person who they love and admire to see them broke.

You also cannot trust that a person who GIVES you money when you need it is a person who loves you the most. A wealthy person can give you money just so you’d go the fuck away.

Whichever way it is, the ONE THING you must allow your soulmates to have is money, freedom, and opportunity to leave you if you want to know who they truly love.

The only thing that matters is: Will they stay with you when nothing is stopping them from leaving? You can also lose to things, opportunities, jobs, cats, dogs, and horses, among other things and creatures; another person can love things and animals more than you. That matters, too.

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