Stop taking love so seriously!

I could have used this reminder back when I met my first obvious True Emotion Mirror! Love is not that serious. It can last a lifetime, you can count on it, you can trust in it, but… It’s not serious. It’s a joy. It’s there for FUN and GAMES, it’s life-giving, beautiful, and the play thing of all playthings! We are all here playing with each other’s emotions. We fall in love, we get hurt and busted, we get up, dust ourselves off and find a new partner. You have several chances of true love, some of them are Potential True Emotion Mirrors, which means they can be close but not quite, that 99% right but with 1% of a miss. A near win, right?

Don’t get hung up on that, love the journey. Your lovers are like wonderful towns you travel through on your backpacking trip… Until you find home. You’ll ruin your trip if you start worrying about every town you pass through not being quite right to live in forever. Just enjoy your stay, move on.

And, if it is your True Emotion Mirror, you can play a little more than usual. They’ll forgive you for everything, right? You cannot do wrong by them, you know? You are 100% right for them, so don’t hold back. Be yourself. Be the annoying weirdo self as you are, even if you’re not monogamist; they don’t want you to be, for instance. Don’t hide your love of other men and women from your True Emotion Mirrors if you’re that way inclined. If you want a spouse and a lifelong traditional marriage, be quite open about it – that’s what your True Emotion Mirror wants, too.

It’s all good fun. It should be fun… No matter how long-lasting the relationship, it is perfectly right for you – or, it’s just a fun journey through another wonderful town.

Jealousy games, by the way, let them play you… Even when you know you’re being jealous over someone you don’t actually want, you could contribute to another person’s joy of victory – just to be a good sport. (I’ll consider doing this myself, but you know. I’ve always wanted not to show jealousy. :D) You could also not really care if someone else is jealous of your guy or girl, love it. The no-jealousy poly-policy is the dumbest thing polyamorists have come up with, even if you don’t really get into it. If you enjoy feeling jealous knowing you won’t lose your partner, feel freaking jealous, right?

ENJOY emotions, all of them. They’re the only TRULY real thing we have in this world.

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