Stop trying to manufacture feelings.

Spiritual people have a toxic tendency to try to manipulate their feelings to trigger a certain event into existing prematurely. “Let go of what you want; then, it’ll come to pass.” “It’ll happen just after you stop searching.” “It’ll happen when you least expect it.” You know the type. Then, you try to forcibly let go, you’ll try to stop searching and trying while you still should or feel compelled to, and you’ll try to force yourself to not expect anything. Yeah no. You’ll have to go through your emotions, your anger, your resentment, your “I’m done with this fucking bullshits!” and I don’t know when things will happen for you, quite possibly when you’re busy cursing the Universe, because that’s when you least expect the Universe to deliver something, right?

There’s no need to try and control it, but also, make sure your spirit guides are not trying to control it by forcing you to stop controlling it or yourself or whatever. You have the right to your feelings, which are genuine and real, even if they’re reacting to the fear of not getting what you want “because your feelings are wrong.”

The best thing you can do for yourself is to control what you can control and try and figure out what it is that you can and cannot control. You can control who and what you spend time on. Spend it on people and things that you enjoy is my advice, rather than trying to obligate yourself to do stuff you don’t enjoy, so that you would be permitted, like a child, to do the stuff you want to be doing.

Try to realize that as an adult, you are responsible for your scheduling. If you don’t see the point of doing something, for heaven’s sake don’t do it (or try to force-feel it) because you think it makes you spiritually more advanced. Trust me a spiritually advanced person never would.

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