Strong Feelings (of hate) – is it always a True Emotion Mirror?
There are some people who believe that any strong feelings about a person is a sign of a True Emotion Mirror connection. That is, however, not true. Many people seem to believe that if you hate someone, it’s always because they don’t love you back or because they don’t like you: “I hate you because you don’t love me back.” These people tend to interpret all hatred as “oh, you love me but you don’t like me because you don’t think I love you”, and they may go to lengths to prove to you that truly, they do love you, can you believe it!
Examine your feelings: why do you hate/dislike/etc. this person? Is it because they don’t love you, or something else? If it’s “I hate them because they don’t leave me alone”, is it because they don’t leave you alone and it makes it near impossible for you to resist the temptation of cheating on your partner (possible Twin Flame) or because they make it impossible for you to move on to be with someone else you like more (a certain sign of a NON-Twin Flame).
If you FEAR you’ll never get away from this person, or that you HATE “the fact” this person is your (fucking) Twin Flame, they’re not your True Emotion Mirror. If you feel like you’d prefer ANYONE to be your True Emotion Mirror over this person, I GUARANTEE YOU, with ALL MY HEART, no matter how many signs, no matter what feelings existed in the beginning, that this is not your True Emotion Mirror.
True Emotion Mirror love lasts, it over-powers everything. You’d forgive them for anything if they were your actual True Emotion Mirror. If this sounds too good to be true, you’re linked to a karmic soulmate, not a True Emotion Mirror. If you don’t LOVE the idea of being able to solve your issues and be joyously united again, no matter how they feel about you, it CANNOT be that this is your True Emotion Mirror (True Emotion Mirror) if those feelings are not 100% mutual. CANNOT. Absolutely 100% cannot.
Fighting with a True Emotion Mirror vs. something else entirely
When you fight with a Twin Flame, it is marked by a silence that will stop solving the issues, OR it is a relatively short spat that ends in something like “but I love you!” “I love you too, what the fuck?” and it’s over. What is MORE THAN LIKELY happening here, rather than a Twin Flame, is that it is a question of a Old Souls* and the Young Soul* having a go at each other. The Young Soul* is looking to bond with a Old Souls*, by using any and all methods known to them, bullying, pressure, force, and a True Emotion Mirror concept, and the Old Souls* doesn’t want to take it, because they’re not in love with the Young Soul*. A LOT OF CONFUSION in the True Emotion Mirror community is stemming from this conflict.
A the Young Soul*/the Old Souls* pairing CAN be a True Emotion Mirror thing, but they create drama despite being True Emotion Mirrors . And there are a loooooot of the Young Soul* True Emotion Mirror “experts” who SWEAR their runner is Twin Flame, when in reality, they are simply refusing to face the fact their game is off and they’ve been rejected, and True Emotion Mirrors is a convenient freaking explanation to the fact they got dumped. You don’t get training for Twin Flames, and even though they mean well, not all True Emotion Mirror teachers are equal, obviously. It’s the god damned Internet.
Check out the concept of the Young Soul* and the Old Souls* and see how that matches your situation. Unlike Twin Flames, the Young Soul* and the Old Souls* are EVERYONE. Everyone is one or the other or some kind of an educated the Young Soul*-like the Old Souls* or the Old Souls* -type the Young Soul*. The point being, you cannot NOT be some kind of a mash-up between these two main types. Therefore, this conflict is MORE THAN COMMON, mundane, every day, run-in-a-mill, dime a dozen, and has nothing to do with True Emotion Mirror connection. Expendable, COMPLETELY expendable non-spiritual drama between non-compatible psychological profiles, nothing more.
And I repeat, it’s POSSIBLE the Young Soul* and a Old Souls* ARE True Emotion Mirrors but it’s rare for these two to make any kind of a successful match. You know it by the fact that the person who identifies as the Old Souls*, ALSO feels in love, here. In the regular drama, the Old Souls* simply feels disinterested, trapped, and desperate to get rid of the Young Soul*.
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**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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