Suffering for love – or for the lack thereof.

People who feel deep sadness for not being loved feel a certain entitlement to another person’s feelings. By demonstrating suffering to you (even telepathically) they want you to know you’re doing wrong by them and need to love them more. However, people who don’t suffer for love, also don’t feel like they are entitled to another person’s feelings. They don’t feel wronged simply because someone doesn’t respond to them with love.

The non-suffering type believe that I control how you feel about me by turning the charm on or off. If you don’t feel love when I try to charm you, I’m not doing very good job of it; my bad, not yours. Therefore, they don’t feel wronged because the other person doesn’t love them. They just haven’t been good enough.

The sufferers on the other hand believe love should be responded to with love. You get love you give love in return. They fall in love with love itself, not the person in question.

Then, there are the hybrids, who do fall for the right person at least, who just doesn’t have the same suffer-modality with them. The non-sufferer should know that the sufferer is begging for love with the demonstration of suffering. If the non-sufferer feels that love, they should show it to the sufferer. The sufferer does often demonstrate that suffer to a specific person, so they are in love with that person, but their demonstration of it may fall onto deaf ears with someone who doesn’t feel entitlement to receive love when love is felt.

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