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Thursday, March 13th, 2025 at
3:09 pm in Australia - Last edit on
March 13, 2025 Tags: Abuse, Embracing Vulnerability, Narcissism, trust, Vulnerability
A narcissist is a child in an adult body. They are not evil any more than a child is evil when scared or fighting to survive on their own in the big, bad world. It is difficult for an adult in an adult body to understand what they are so afraid of, but one of […]
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Saturday, December 28th, 2024 at
1:01 am in Australia - Last edit on
December 28, 2024 Tags: Abuse, Cat Type Thinkers, Dog Type Thinker, Narcissism, Thinker Type
Most of my blog posts involve a dysfunctional Modern-Timeless dynamic. However, basically, this dynamic describes a narcissistic reaction (the moral outrage) of the Modern who loves someone who doesn’t love them back. For a Modern, a person who doesn’t return love is seen as “narcissistic,” in layman’s terms. For a Timeless, a person who cannot live […]
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Tuesday, December 24th, 2024 at
9:23 am in Australia - Last edit on
December 24, 2024 Tags: Abuse, Narcissism
The Timeless and the Modern think entirely differently. They are like a night and day. Therefore, the Timeless kindness is the opposite of Modern kindness. The Timeless typically suffocates their feelings near the Modern, because if the Timeless speaks their mind, it results into an out-and-out war because the Modern typically doesn’t see how their […]
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Sunday, December 22nd, 2024 at
10:41 am in Australia - Last edit on
December 31, 2024 Tags: Abuse, Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, Narcissism, relationships, Trust Issues
Narcissists will always attempt to safe face by blaming all relationship issues on someone else. They fear relationships, and they fear being alone, but when they are once again at the brink of a breakup, they need YOU TO KNOW that IT WAS YOUR FAULT, your ex’s fault, your mother’s fault, maybe your dog’s fault, […]
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Monday, December 16th, 2024 at
8:35 pm in Australia - Last edit on
December 24, 2024 Tags: Abuse, Narcissism
A narcissist does not want to see themselves in a realistic light. They want to maintain a certain “don’t want to look at it” about it. They have two opposite methods of coping with this wish not to see themselves realistically: to avoid all criticism by not taking anything seriously or taking offense in everything […]
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Sunday, December 1st, 2024 at
9:25 pm in Australia - Last edit on
December 24, 2024 Tags: Abuse, Money and Business, Narcissism
A narcissist buys stuff and befriends people that provide status. No matter how useful, fun, or enjoyable something or someone would be, they cannot see the point of having it or them unless someone high status also has it. (Sometimes, rarely, they can they also predict having something, a friend included, will be a status […]
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Wednesday, November 20th, 2024 at
7:32 am in Australia - Last edit on
November 20, 2024 Tags: Abuse, Internet, love
There are trans women who we absolutely adore. Both fictional and real. It is easy to say that we love and accept transwomen who look like women, act like women, and think like women, but then there are transwomen who are obviously biologically male, some rocking a full beard, and we adore them, too. To […]
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Wednesday, August 28th, 2024 at
1:48 am in Australia - Last edit on
December 24, 2024 Tags: Abuse, Narcissism
There’s a surprising end to this post. I didn’t plan for it. 😉 Start of the cycle Narcissism is a combination of different fears coming together. Fear of abandonment, fear of taking responsibility, fear of not being enough, fear of not being good enough or accepted. Narcissism is often said to be a condition of […]
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Thursday, August 8th, 2024 at
12:28 am in Australia - Last edit on
August 8, 2024 Tags: Abuse
Look. I get it. Your mom taught you to respect women. Possibly in the same breath, she disrespected you, your father, and brothers, maybe every man she’s ever dated before, and you didn’t notice. She followed up by declaring herself an angel for loving you and your dad while whooping both of you’s proverbial asses. […]
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Wednesday, July 31st, 2024 at
2:11 am in Australia - Last edit on
July 31, 2024 Tags: Abuse, Internet
What the Dog Type Thinker want when they pick a fight is to gain attention to their own problems and inadequacies. They want someone they admire to go: “Well, look who is talking, it’s not like you know the first thing about doing makeup/working out/healthy eating/philosophy/love….” They assume that if YOU NOTICE that they don’t […]
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