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Friday, May 16th, 2025 at
11:46 am in Australia - Last edit on
May 16, 2025 Tags: Abuse, Burnout, Inner Peace, Karmic Relationships, Narcissism
If you are used to dealing with narcissists or are one, you’ll be running a constant balance sheet in your head about who is receiving what and for whatever reason. If you’re not the narcissist, you try to keep the incoming and outgoing even and fair, and err on the side of personal loss. If […]
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Wednesday, April 30th, 2025 at
6:19 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 30, 2025 Tags: Abuse, Courage, Narcissism, Overcoming Fear
How do you know somebody is scamming you in one way or another? You are being strung by a bright future that never seems to come. Great promises, no delivery… Usually not even on the small things. The most hooking aspect is the sympathy and flattery; if only you were good enough; “I believe in […]
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Tuesday, April 22nd, 2025 at
10:27 pm in Australia - Last edit on
April 22, 2025 Tags: Abuse, friends, lovers, Narcissism, Psychology
As I start writing this, I have very little idea what to say except that people may say this about you. Narcissistic Personality Disorder is something that a lot of people are worried about, and, Precious Soulmate and True Emotion Mirror relationships resemble it A LOT on the surface. A LOT. Why? Because NPD’s mimic […]
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Thursday, March 13th, 2025 at
3:09 pm in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Abuse, Embracing Vulnerability, Narcissism, trust, Vulnerability
A narcissist is a child in an adult body. They are not evil any more than a child is evil when scared or fighting to survive on their own in the big, bad world. It is difficult for an adult in an adult body to understand what they are so afraid of, but one of […]
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Saturday, December 28th, 2024 at
1:01 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Abuse, Narcissism, Idealists*, Thinker Type, Survivalist*
Most of my blog posts involve a dysfunctional Survivalist*-Idealist* dynamic. However, basically, this dynamic describes a narcissistic reaction (the moral outrage) of the Survivalist* who loves someone who doesn’t love them back. For a Survivalist*, a person who doesn’t return love is seen as “narcissistic,” in layman’s terms. For a Idealist*, a person who cannot live […]
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Tuesday, December 24th, 2024 at
9:23 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Abuse, Narcissism
Idealist* and the Survivalist* think entirely differently. They are like a night and day. Therefore, the Idealist* kindness is the opposite of Survivalist* kindness. Idealist* typically suffocates their feelings near the Survivalist*, because if the Idealist* speaks their mind, it results into an out-and-out war because the Survivalist* typically doesn’t see how their […]
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Sunday, December 22nd, 2024 at
10:41 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Abuse, Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, Narcissism, relationships, Trust Issues
Narcissists** will always attempt to safe face by blaming all relationship issues on someone else. They fear relationships, and they fear being alone, but when they are once again at the brink of a breakup, they need YOU TO KNOW that IT WAS YOUR FAULT, your ex’s fault, your mother’s fault, maybe your dog’s fault, […]
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Monday, December 16th, 2024 at
8:35 pm in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Abuse, Narcissism
A narcissist does not want to see themselves in a realistic light. They want to maintain a certain “don’t want to look at it” about it. They have two opposite methods of coping with this wish not to see themselves realistically: to avoid all criticism by not taking anything seriously or taking offense in everything […]
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Sunday, December 1st, 2024 at
9:25 pm in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Abuse, Money and Business, Narcissism
A narcissist buys stuff and befriends people that provide status. No matter how useful, fun, or enjoyable something or someone would be, they cannot see the point of having it or them unless someone high status also has it. (Sometimes, rarely, they can they also predict having something, a friend included, will be a status […]
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Wednesday, November 20th, 2024 at
7:32 am in Australia - Last edit on
November 20, 2024 Tags: Abuse, Internet, love
There are trans women who we absolutely adore. Both fictional and real. It is easy to say that we love and accept transwomen who look like women, act like women, and think like women, but then there are transwomen who are obviously biologically male, some rocking a full beard, and we adore them, too. To […]
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