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You don’t want them to lose you? What fucking narcissistic crap is that?!

First of all, if they don’t care enough about you to mind their steps around you, maybe they don’t deserve you. Second of all, if you think you have to bend backward so that someone else doesn’t lose you… Oh fuck me… That’s some narcissistic mothafucking crap right there. I guarantee you that you ain’t […]

Seb’s meal plan for lazy, semi-broke, hedonistic people who hate to think about what to cook.

So this is what I figured about 2 years ago: I always ate the same rubbish meal almost every day because I hate thinking about what to cook. Better things to do with my time. I push it for the next day and the next day… When I finally got tired of my waste line […]

Moral selfishness when it comes to cheating and sleeping with someone else’s spouse

I am not a big fan of cheating. Personally, I want things clean and out in the open, but there are also other factors to consider. I tend to say: “He’s married, but he’s not THAT married.” Adult people have made commitments to people who are not truly in love with them since marriage was […]

“I was only joking” tools of abuse.

While sometimes we do miss an honest joke or two, and one should rather avoid getting too upset over everything that sounds like an insult, sometimes “jokes” are being used as a tool of manipulation and control. If you get upset or uncomfortable about what someone says or does, and their constant explanation is “I […]

Narcissistic Personality Disorder or True Emotion Mirror?

Incredibly, this is something you might need to consider when you fall for someone so hard you seem to have lost your mind.

Gender equality is not a mutual permission to abuse the opposite gender.

the Young Soul* are hierarchical. This means, that they are always looking to dominate and to submit. Equality, in itself, is a profoundly the Cat Thinking concept that we’re trying to teach the Young Soul*, in vain. The Young Soul* thinkers are fixated on dominance. Therefore, the feminist movement, to them, male or female the […]

True Emotion Mirror or a Narcissistic Dynamic?

Incredibly, a narcissistic relationship mimics a True Emotion Mirror relationship at times very convincingly. There are a few key differences that you can pin, however, to see whether this is a narcissistic bind or a True Emotion Mirror relationship. 1. Both True Emotion Mirrors and narcissistic sources can give you everything you want in life, […]

You hate yourself?

Let’s try something. This is the cheapest therapy session you’ll ever get, so do this, and don’t cheat. This is for your own good. Find an app or program you can write stuff down on, and get on your laptop if you’re on mobile but can get to a keyboard. Open a Windows Notepad or […]

Narcissistic abuse in the Young Soul*and the Old Souls* dynamics.

For the Young Soul* and a Old Souls* to have wound up in a relationship together, the Young Soul* must have chased the Old Souls* for a relationship. Now, before I continue, I must say that not all narcissistic relationships start the same way, and that True Emotion Mirror relationships can SEEM quite narcissistic at […]

Just because someone doesn’t love you, doesn’t mean they hate you.

This is something not all people understand: there are emotions between love and hate. Shades. If someone breaks up with you simply because they don’t love you, it doesn’t mean they intend to turn into your enemy. They just don’t love you enough for what your relationship needs for them to love you, whether it […]

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