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The Narcissistic spiral – how does a person spiral into narcissism?

There’s a surprising end to this post. I didn’t plan for it. 😉 Start of the cycle Narcissism is a combination of different fears coming together. Fear of abandonment, fear of taking responsibility, fear of not being enough, fear of not being good enough or accepted. Narcissism is often said to be a condition of […]

Men, stop treating abusive women like they were equal to good women. It’s insulting.

Look. I get it. Your mom taught you to respect women. Possibly in the same breath, she disrespected you, your father, and brothers, maybe every man she’s ever dated before, and you didn’t notice. She followed up by declaring herself an angel for loving you and your dad while whooping both of you’s proverbial asses. […]

Someone picking a fight? Do you get hate-comments online or in person?

What the Young Soul* want when they pick a fight is to gain attention to their own problems and inadequacies. They want someone they admire to go: “Well, look who is talking, it’s not like you know the first thing about doing makeup/working out/healthy eating/philosophy/love….” They assume that if YOU NOTICE that they don’t know […]

You don’t want them to lose you? What fucking narcissistic crap is that?!

First of all, if they don’t care enough about you to mind their steps around you, maybe they don’t deserve you. Second of all, if you think you have to bend backward so that someone else doesn’t lose you… Oh fuck me… That’s some narcissistic mothafucking crap right there. I guarantee you that you ain’t […]

Seb’s meal plan for lazy, semi-broke, hedonistic people who hate to think about what to cook.

So this is what I figured about 2 years ago: I always ate the same rubbish meal almost every day because I hate thinking about what to cook. Better things to do with my time. I push it for the next day and the next day… When I finally got tired of my waste line […]

Moral selfishness when it comes to cheating and sleeping with someone else’s spouse

I am not a big fan of cheating. Personally, I want things clean and out in the open, but there are also other factors to consider. I tend to say: “He’s married, but he’s not THAT married.” Adult people have made commitments to people who are not truly in love with them since marriage was […]

“I was only joking” tools of abuse.

While sometimes we do miss an honest joke or two, and one should rather avoid getting too upset over everything that sounds like an insult, sometimes “jokes” are being used as a tool of manipulation and control. If you get upset or uncomfortable about what someone says or does, and their constant explanation is “I […]

Narcissistic Personality Disorder or True Emotion Mirror?

Incredibly, this is something you might need to consider when you fall for someone so hard you seem to have lost your mind.

Gender equality is not a mutual permission to abuse the opposite gender.

the Young Soul* are hierarchical. This means, that they are always looking to dominate and to submit. Equality, in itself, is a profoundly the Cat Thinking concept that we’re trying to teach the Young Soul*, in vain. The Young Soul* thinkers are fixated on dominance. Therefore, the feminist movement, to them, male or female the […]

True Emotion Mirror or a Narcissistic Dynamic?

Incredibly, a narcissistic relationship mimics a True Emotion Mirror relationship at times very convincingly. There are a few key differences that you can pin, however, to see whether this is a narcissistic bind or a True Emotion Mirror relationship. 1. Both True Emotion Mirrors and narcissistic sources can give you everything you want in life, […]

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