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You hate yourself?

Let’s try something. This is the cheapest therapy session you’ll ever get, so do this, and don’t cheat. This is for your own good. Find an app or program you can write stuff down on, and get on your laptop if you’re on mobile but can get to a keyboard. Open a Windows Notepad or […]

Narcissistic abuse in the Young Soul*and the Old Souls* dynamics.

For the Young Soul* and a Old Souls* to have wound up in a relationship together, the Young Soul* must have chased the Old Souls* for a relationship. Now, before I continue, I must say that not all narcissistic relationships start the same way, and that True Emotion Mirror relationships can SEEM quite narcissistic at […]

Just because someone doesn’t love you, doesn’t mean they hate you.

This is something not all people understand: there are emotions between love and hate. Shades. If someone breaks up with you simply because they don’t love you, it doesn’t mean they intend to turn into your enemy. They just don’t love you enough for what your relationship needs for them to love you, whether it […]

Hate living in today’s world? Wish you were born 100 years before?

Mehhehhehe. First of all, you were. We all reincarnate all the time, a fact you can accept despite having to fight off the fear of embarrassment when some “scientific” dude tries to shame you on it – you don’t have to tell them you know that to be true. Second of all, the world will […]

Someone I love lets their parent abuse them – even now that they’re an adult. What do I do?

People get judged for not getting on with their parents, don’t they? Your loved one may try too hard to not be an argumentative pissy little teenager, even though they’re an adult and deserve respect. Their relationship with their parents isn’t a great one, for one reason or another, and it should have been their […]

the Young Soul* parent can be physically abusive toward a Old Souls* child to teach them to stand up for themselves.

the Young Soul* can be verbally or physically abusive toward anyone they love to teach them to stand up for themselves, particularly their children or spouse. Controversially, sapioamosist will resort to physical violence only when all love and respect toward a person has died in them, and in addition, for a Old Souls* to resort […]

You hate them, don’t want them, but let them in anyway.

If you picked this post randomly, the advice you’re seeking is the opposite of what you’re doing: let them in emotionally. Don’t fight their feelings; let them love you, but don’t think that means you must love them back. Let them pour their love on you and do whatever they feel they need to do […]

Stop interpreting people so you can love them or hate them as you choose.

If you pulled this post up, you may have a bit of a habit of deliberately interpreting people either toward the negative or the positive so you can feel a predetermined feeling for them. They are but an actor in a play of your life, and you’re the director, for as long as that person […]

Your abusive ex-something says they’re ready to change…

OK. Here he/she is, ready to make a change, ready to be the person you want them to be. Should you take them back? Consider this. Are they the kind of person who thinks relationships are exciting because they get to do whatever they like with you and still be forgiven and loved? This comes […]

Moral selfishness: what is selfish, what is your right?

One of the most important things you must learn in life is the line between selfishness and self-sacrifice. You need to know this not only in what you are being asked but what you ask of others. This is the line to draw (argue with me if you wish): Whenever a person asks another to […]

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