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Hate living in today’s world? Wish you were born 100 years before?

Mehhehhehe. First of all, you were. We all reincarnate all the time, a fact you can accept despite having to fight off the fear of embarrassment when some “scientific” dude tries to shame you on it – you don’t have to tell them you know that to be true. Second of all, the world will […]

Someone I love lets their parent abuse them – even now that they’re an adult. What do I do?

People get judged for not getting on with their parents, don’t they? Your loved one may try too hard to not be an argumentative pissy little teenager, even though they’re an adult and deserve respect. Their relationship with their parents isn’t a great one, for one reason or another, and it should have been their […]

the Normal Person* parent can be physically abusive toward a Savants* child to teach them to stand up for themselves.

the Normal Person* can be verbally or physically abusive toward anyone they love to teach them to stand up for themselves, particularly their children or spouse. Controversially, sapioamosist will resort to physical violence only when all love and respect toward a person has died in them, and in addition, for a Savants* to resort […]

You hate them, don’t want them, but let them in anyway.

If you picked this post randomly, the advice you’re seeking is the opposite of what you’re doing: let them in emotionally. Don’t fight their feelings; let them love you, but don’t think that means you must love them back. Let them pour their love on you and do whatever they feel they need to do […]

Stop interpreting people so you can love them or hate them as you choose.

If you pulled this post up, you may have a bit of a habit of deliberately interpreting people either toward the negative or the positive so you can feel a predetermined feeling for them. They are but an actor in a play of your life, and you’re the director, for as long as that person […]

Your abusive ex-something says they’re ready to change…

OK. Here he/she is, ready to make a change, ready to be the person you want them to be. Should you take them back? Consider this. Are they the kind of person who thinks relationships are exciting because they get to do whatever they like with you and still be forgiven and loved? This comes […]

Moral selfishness: what is selfish, what is your right?

One of the most important things you must learn in life is the line between selfishness and self-sacrifice. You need to know this not only in what you are being asked but what you ask of others. This is the line to draw (argue with me if you wish): Whenever a person asks another to […]

Narcissistic misinterpretations of the True Emotion Mirror -bond descriptions.

Narcissistic Personality Disorder is one of the most difficult things for any psychologist or spiritual teacher to get around. Not only does narcissists misinterpret things of this nature every time they hear something taught to them, but they will also re-educate others into thinking that their interpretation of the lesson was the correct one. Further, […]

With any level of impressiveness comes the unimpressed narcissistic help seekers.

When a narcissist sees a person who they find impressive or a threat to their idea of reality (they are the best), their first instinct is two-fold: a) prove to themselves that this person is not impressive at all and b) if they find them impressive, to make them a part of their court, their […]

The last line of narcissistic defence: “I am so pathetic, you must forgive me”

When all else fails, as far as the narcissistic need to tie you to them forever goes, they will either reveal or make up a story of something that happened to them as a child that makes them so pathetic and so guilt-free, that you’ll have to excuse whatever they’ve done to you in the […]

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