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Narcissistic misinterpretations of the True Emotion Mirror -bond descriptions.

Narcissistic Personality Disorder is one of the most difficult things for any psychologist or spiritual teacher to get around. Not only does narcissists misinterpret things of this nature every time they hear something taught to them, but they will also re-educate others into thinking that their interpretation of the lesson was the correct one. Further, […]

With any level of impressiveness comes the unimpressed narcissistic help seekers.

When a narcissist sees a person who they find impressive or a threat to their idea of reality (they are the best), their first instinct is two-fold: a) prove to themselves that this person is not impressive at all and b) if they find them impressive, to make them a part of their court, their […]

The last line of narcissistic defence: “I am so pathetic, you must forgive me”

When all else fails, as far as the narcissistic need to tie you to them forever goes, they will either reveal or make up a story of something that happened to them as a child that makes them so pathetic and so guilt-free, that you’ll have to excuse whatever they’ve done to you in the […]

Adult child abuse: “My forever baby” -ideology and overprotectiveness

This post was published from a draft mode, FYI Your job, as a parent, is to raise children into adults, not to keep your kids as pets. Remember, your kids aren’t your pets. They have a life you gave them, and it doesn’t belong to you. You GAVE THEM life, and it SHOULD be no […]

“Sticking around” and how it can be either the most romantic thing or simple abuse

When you drill down to almost anyone’s ultimate “what you want from OUR relationship”, the answer, always, to a True Emotion Mirror (and to a Precious Soulmate) is “so you’ll stick around. I want you to just stick around!” However, when someone who isn’t either will forcibly, against your true will, push themselves into your […]

Signs of covert abuse you might have taken for love or friendship

I want you to understand, first, that I totally believe in true love and eternal bliss. I believe in love at first sight, and I believe relationships can be truly beautiful, even when so attached and so bonded, that NOTHING WILL EVER break you two apart. Truthfully, I believe that some amazing relationships freak out […]

Obedience: A clear divider between abuse and love

Now, first, Disobedience is not what the Old Souls* are about, even though the Young Soul* are about obedience. It’s just that the Old Souls* don’t necessarily obey if they feel what is requested of them is undue, unfair, over-the-top, unnecessary, unlawful, or otherwise morally questionable. They don’t disobey for the sake of disobedience in […]

Love is not a justification for abuse and bad behavior

The Young Soul* have one bad trait above others. The Old Souls* have their own, but this is the Young Soul*’s failure: They think love justifies abusive behavior. The logic here goes, that “but I love you”, as in “but you know I love you, therefore, why do you care if I beat you up/verbally […]

How Narcissistic Personality Disorder is not really a thing

There are two types of people in the world; the Young Soul* and the Old Souls*. It depends wholly on which type of a person is diagnosing (or casually judging) another person, as to who gets the diagnosis and who gets to be deemed “healthy”. In reality, neither has a personality disorder, but they are […]

What is love, what feels like love, and what is so close to love it feels just like hate

Love is the situation when you see another person the same way they see themselves, and they see you the same way as you see yourself, and you both love what you see in each other. If you see flaw in each other, you agree on what is a flaw and what is a virtue […]

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