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Is domestic violence between True Emotion Mirrors the same as between other people?

There is a little something that we need to discuss. Domestic violence is a bit of a taboo topic, and I ask you to have an open mind about this. We are animals. The fact we are animals among other species means that once the layers of civilization peel back, what is left is a […]

How to ensure the True Emotion Mirror relationship doesn’t slip into blatant abuse?

In this post, I wrote about how an unwanted relationship that functions under the rule of “unbreakable bond” and to prove an unbreakable bond turns into sadistic abuse leading to serious mental illness. In this post, I’ll attempt to answer the problem, that a lot of the True Emotion Mirror, TrEmor, relationship fun is based […]

Denying/hating who you are will force you to hate your closest soulmates

Your True Emotion Mirrors and Precious Soulmates* are your two most important groups of people. They are the people who you AUTHENTICALLY love, deep in your core, without any ability to change that fact. However, you are more than capable of hating yourself. When you hate yourself, you deny aspects of yourself. You tell yourself […]

Junk Shop Mirror Spirit – reuniting with all the things that you’d hate to be

This is quite likely the WORST thing you can find when doing spiritual work on yourself. The person you loathe and dislike the most in your life, the person who you’re looking at thinking “I am so glad and proud to say I’m nothing like you as I loathe everything you represent” is actually the […]

If you hate yourself, let’s discuss things for a bit

If you hate/loathe yourself it is most likely a sign of a good person. You. The only people who never criticise themselves, who never question their own motives, who never check up on themselves are those people who just don’t give a damn, right? These people are very unlikely to be nice people. If you […]

Narcissistic Personality Disorder, misdiagnosis and the real problems

Disobedience, being self-satisfied and knowing the level of one’s own, unusually high talent are not symptoms of any kind of a Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Liking the way oneself looks, taking tons of selfies, and maintaining a personal blog or a social media account are also not symptoms of NPD in itself. Not liking people, refusing […]

How some women (systematically) abuse men

Men tend to take it for granted that a woman who wants to marry him will show a level of abuse towards him. This abuse is mostly verbal, aiming to “put him in his place” and to force him into the role of a husband. This, when it comes from a woman you truly love, […]

Why do people hate you

This is a lot to do with self-confidence, self-esteem, self-love, level/type of intelligence, and complexities of the personality, so there is a sense of scale here, rather than an on-off button. Mainly the Normal Person* or mainly the Savants* is an option. The more complicated and unusual a person is, the more they go […]

Why the Savants* children hate their the Normal Person* parent(s)

The Normal Person* believe their job as a parent is to guide and  nurture and raise their children. They believe in giving them structure and rules, limitations, and a route to follow. the Savants*, despite their  upbringing, as a natural alignment that the Normal Person*, no matter how much they hate this idea, cannot […]

How Good People Wind Up In Abusive Relationships

The number one reason why people feel abused in a relationship (as opposed to actually being in an abusive relationship) is the fact that people interpret and express emotions in very different ways. In addition, there are people who, instead of realizing that “you’ve got a problem (ie. we are incompatible), I can’t fix that, […]

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