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Disvalidating other’s feelings is not exactly abuse, but…

One of the most common signs of emotional abuse in a relationship is invalidating others’ feelings. This is more than likely not intentional abuse, however, but a difference in the way we communicate. We approach emotionally important topics differently, and what seems like a shut down of communication may be an attempt to say “I’m […]

Strong Feelings (of hate) – is it always a True Emotion Mirror?

There are some people who believe that any strong feelings about a person is a sign of a True Emotion Mirror connection. That is, however, not true. Many people seem to believe that if you hate someone, it’s always because they don’t love you back or because they don’t like you: “I hate you because […]

Why do the Old Souls* hate rejection so much they give up on a True Emotion Mirror?

The Old Souls* are often very well-liked people with a high self-confidence and higher than average IQ, which contributes to the feeling of being different and separated from others – why on earth would that make them accept rejection so easily and let go, when the normal reaction is to keep on trying hard, pestering, […]

Is domestic violence between True Emotion Mirrors the same as between other people?

There is a little something that we need to discuss. Domestic violence is a bit of a taboo topic, and I ask you to have an open mind about this. We are animals. The fact we are animals among other species means that once the layers of civilization peel back, what is left is a […]

How to ensure the True Emotion Mirror relationship doesn’t slip into blatant abuse?

In this post, I wrote about how an unwanted relationship that functions under the rule of “unbreakable bond” and to prove an unbreakable bond turns into sadistic abuse leading to serious mental illness. In this post, I’ll attempt to answer the problem, that a lot of the True Emotion Mirror, TrEmor, relationship fun is based […]

Denying/hating who you are will force you to hate your closest soulmates

Your True Emotion Mirrors and Precious Soulmates* are your two most important groups of people. They are the people who you AUTHENTICALLY love, deep in your core, without any ability to change that fact. However, you are more than capable of hating yourself. When you hate yourself, you deny aspects of yourself. You tell yourself […]

Junk Shop Mirror Spirit – reuniting with all the things that you’d hate to be

This is quite likely the WORST thing you can find when doing spiritual work on yourself. The person you loathe and dislike the most in your life, the person who you’re looking at thinking “I am so glad and proud to say I’m nothing like you as I loathe everything you represent” is actually the […]

If you hate yourself, let’s discuss things for a bit

If you hate/loathe yourself it is most likely a sign of a good person. You. The only people who never criticise themselves, who never question their own motives, who never check up on themselves are those people who just don’t give a damn, right? These people are very unlikely to be nice people. If you […]

Narcissistic Personality Disorder, misdiagnosis and the real problems

Disobedience, being self-satisfied and knowing the level of one’s own, unusually high talent are not symptoms of any kind of a Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Liking the way oneself looks, taking tons of selfies, and maintaining a personal blog or a social media account are also not symptoms of NPD in itself. Not liking people, refusing […]

How some women (systematically) abuse men

Men tend to take it for granted that a woman who wants to marry him will show a level of abuse towards him. This abuse is mostly verbal, aiming to “put him in his place” and to force him into the role of a husband. This, when it comes from a woman you truly love, […]

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