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Is it abuse or real love?

As always, nothing in life is black and white. We should never judge one thing based on one similarity between two things or in this case, two relationships. It is also often very difficult to see who is the victim and who is the abuser, and this is often a differing point of view between […]

Why is it anti-feminist to solely accuse the male in case of domestic violence

Note; This post is written well before the full story of what happened between Johnny Depp and Amber Heard unfolded. I leave it out there to make a point that I was able to accept the possibility that Depp was violent, and am not blinded to that possibility… At all. Obviously, we still don’t know […]

Do you hate change? How to find stability in life:

Every time Facebook changes its layout, there will be tons of groups popping up demanding Facebook to “change it back”! This is a symptom of feeling anguish when things evolve, improve, in other words, but the improvement is overshadowed by the sheer fear of change. Some people feel the need to hang onto stuff and […]

Love or hate – can you tell the difference?

I noticed something peculiar when discussing emotions with women on the spirit level. I noticed that they had trouble telling the difference between theĀ feeling of being loved and the feeling of being hated. This may sound incredible, but it seems to me, that the emotion of actual love is a VERY developed feeling incredibly unrecognisable […]

Physical and emotional abuse in a relationship; giving and receiving

I am going to warn you that this post will probably anger some people but please stick with me. This might save a lot of people from both physical and emotional abuse in all of their relationships. Let me first introduce to you two completely opposite ways of thinking: Giver: “You love me because I […]

Abusive and Toxic relationships

When is it True Mirror abuse and when is it not? Unfortunately this topic cannot be avoided. True Emotion Mirror relationships can look toxic on the surface, but sometimes what looks like True Emotion Mirror abuse isn’t such, and even if it is, it has to be dealt with. As a Savants*, you probably […]

The difference between narcissistic abuse and True Mirror anger

The simplest way to make a difference between narcissistic abuse and True Mirror dominance is the fact that a victim hates it, a True Mirror is sexually aroused by it. These two things are not the same thing, although to the surface they appear similar. Narcissistic abuser attempts to contain their victim into a role they chose for them through both physical and emotional abuse.

New view on Narcissistic personality disorder and it’s phases

If we compare a person to a house, we can have three types; Too modest compared to who lives in it, too flashy compared to who lives in it, or one that is being built to house the growth and expansion of the person who lives in it.

Societal shame of sex directly creates sexual abuse victims

To sexually spoil someone, you need to have something to spoil; sexual purity and disinterest in sex. To create a sexual trauma, we first must agree that there is something wrong with sexual intercourse happening in certain circumstances, without an exception. It’s the without an exception part that worries me.

The importance of selfishness and uncompromising attitude

Have you ever heard anyone tell you that everything in this Universe has it’s rightful place, and everyone in it will find their proper place? If not, I’m telling you now. We are what we are, and during our incarnations we become more of ourselves and are trying to find our proper place in relation […]

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