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Why do people hate you

This is a lot to do with self-confidence, self-esteem, self-love, level/type of intelligence, and complexities of the personality, so there is a sense of scale here, rather than an on-off button. Mainly the Young Soul* or mainly the Old Souls* is an option. The more complicated and unusual a person is, the more they go […]

Why the Old Souls* children hate their the Young Soul* parent(s)

The Young Soul* believe their job as a parent is to guide and  nurture and raise their children. They believe in giving them structure and rules, limitations, and a route to follow. the Old Souls*, despite their  upbringing, as a natural alignment that the Young Soul*, no matter how much they hate this idea, cannot […]

How Good People Wind Up In Abusive Relationships

The number one reason why people feel abused in a relationship (as opposed to actually being in an abusive relationship) is the fact that people interpret and express emotions in very different ways. In addition, there are people who, instead of realizing that “you’ve got a problem (ie. we are incompatible), I can’t fix that, […]

Is it abuse or real love?

As always, nothing in life is black and white. We should never judge one thing based on one similarity between two things or in this case, two relationships. It is also often very difficult to see who is the victim and who is the abuser, and this is often a differing point of view between […]

Why is it anti-feminist to solely accuse the male in case of domestic violence

Note; This post is written well before the full story of what happened between Johnny Depp and Amber Heard unfolded. I leave it out there to make a point that I was able to accept the possibility that Depp was violent, and am not blinded to that possibility… At all. Obviously, we still don’t know […]

Do you hate change? How to find stability in life:

Every time Facebook changes its layout, there will be tons of groups popping up demanding Facebook to “change it back”! This is a symptom of feeling anguish when things evolve, improve, in other words, but the improvement is overshadowed by the sheer fear of change. Some people feel the need to hang onto stuff and […]

Love or hate – can you tell the difference?

I noticed something peculiar when discussing emotions with women on the spirit level. I noticed that they had trouble telling the difference between the feeling of being loved and the feeling of being hated. This may sound incredible, but it seems to me, that the emotion of actual love is a VERY developed feeling incredibly unrecognisable […]

Abusive and Toxic relationships

When is it True Mirror abuse and when is it not? Unfortunately this topic cannot be avoided. True Emotion Mirror relationships can look toxic on the surface, but sometimes what looks like True Emotion Mirror abuse isn’t such, and even if it is, it has to be dealt with. As a Old Souls*, you probably […]

The difference between narcissistic abuse and True Mirror anger

The simplest way to make a difference between narcissistic abuse and True Mirror dominance is the fact that a victim hates it, a True Mirror is sexually aroused by it. These two things are not the same thing, although to the surface they appear similar. Narcissistic abuser attempts to contain their victim into a role they chose for them through both physical and emotional abuse.

New view on Narcissistic personality disorder and it’s phases

If we compare a person to a house, we can have three types; Too modest compared to who lives in it, too flashy compared to who lives in it, or one that is being built to house the growth and expansion of the person who lives in it.

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