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Sometimes, Cat Type Thinkers are terrified of rejection, utterly romantic, and very keen to form a relationship…

Cat Type Thinkers, men especially, often display the Avoidant Attachment Style, or disorder as it’s sometimes named. This is a reaction to the way people react to them, sometimes their parents and even a person with a Secure Attachment Style may show symptoms of the Avoidant Attachment Style. These are terms from the Attachment Theory, […]

A narcissist is a rejection junkie. They’ll reject you to make you want them more.

A narcissist is really only interested in relationships for the purpose of boosting one’s own self-image or for improving one’s societal stance. When someone rejects them, they feel that person is their superior, and they NEED TO get to that person’s good books. They’ll reject you only if they sense you’re about to reject them, […]

Stuck in an argument?

Suppose you’re stuck in an argument with someone, and you feel like you’re not quite talking about the same thing or not really getting into the heart of the matter, here’s a clue: A the Timeless is talking about their EMOTIONS. If they’ve already said everything there is about their emotions, they have nothing else […]

How to take rejection?

I am a master at taking rejection; I’m even too good at it. I’m so good that men tend not to realize I was interested in the first place. That said, don’t become as good as I am at it. It does pay to be reasonably good at it, tho, for your own convenience. Now. […]

One of the best signs of being in love and secure in a relationship is that you >BOTH< love bickering and arguing.

Bickering and arguing in a relationship is truly NOT GREAT when the relationship isn’t solid. Either both of you avoid arguments or only one of you does, but even if you normally HATE bickering and arguing and “being in a mood” in average relationships, in a secure, love-filled relationship, these things will suddenly feel amusing. […]

Do you enjoy (non-intellectual) arguing? Yes? Never assume your sparring partner feels the same way about it.

The premise of a non-intellectual, fun,  social form of arguing is that you BOTH… YOU BOTH feel equally, that the love you share is unquestionable. If this premise is not there, ONE OF YOU is not going to enjoy the fight. You have to be absolutely secure in the love-bond of your relationship, before you […]

Take rejection as a push toward your True Emotion Mirrors.

From now on, don’t think of a rejection as a “no, you can’t have what you want” but as a push toward your True Emotion Mirror: “I might look like the right thing, but no, you’re looking for THAT.” Still, a “rejection” is sometimes a plea for a little more time. “I know you’re the […]

True Emotion Mirror rejection – is it real?

Your True Emotion Mirror(s) will never reject you for real. That said, there is a good chance a person might THINK this sexy hot individual is their True Emotion Mirror when they’re simply not. A person unable or unwilling to contemplate the possibility that a rejection they experienced might be real rather than flirtation may […]

Dog-Type Thinkers don’t fear rejection.

This is something that the Cat Type Thinkers should know: Dog-Type Thinkers don’t fear rejection from strangers, but they’re terrified of losing an opportunity to make or keep a friend. Therefore, they’re hanging on if you seem uncertain about your rejection – just in case. A the Cat Type Thinkers doesn’t like to openly and […]

A Rejection Junkie

A rejection junkie is a person who believes a rejection from someone they are genuinely interested in could not be real, but that it is only flirtation. A rejection junkie has narcissistic self-confidence in that not one person they’d want to get to know in one sense or another could reject them for reals. A […]

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