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Why you shouldn’t give in to rejection junkies.

A rejection junkie is a person who cannot accept the idea that they have been rejected. They don’t BELIEVE they have been truly rejected, but they believe this person is toying with them, wants to get something more out of the relationship and thus positioning themselves for a negotiation, or most likely that they are […]

It is OK to change one’s mind and join the winning team in an argument!

In case you don’t know, being right is not a competition in the sense that you can’t abandon your team if you’re losing a fight. You are PERFECTLY permitted to change sides if you find the opponent’s arguments more compelling – and you can bring your friends, too. The point of most arguing is not […]

Rejection; the junkie, the fobic, and the elitist

To be fair, an elitist can be either the junkie or the phobic, and the idea of “superior” is at the core of all of these issues. Still, things will get complicated, when you add equality into the mix while there are still superiority-elements in people’s philosophy… And if there aren’t, there are no concept […]

Why do the Old Souls* hate rejection so much they give up on a True Emotion Mirror?

The Old Souls* are often very well-liked people with a high self-confidence and higher than average IQ, which contributes to the feeling of being different and separated from others – why on earth would that make them accept rejection so easily and let go, when the normal reaction is to keep on trying hard, pestering, […]

True Emotion Mirrors and Rejection

First of all, let’s discuss why this issue must be discussed in massive detail. When a person meets their True Emotion Mirror, they may react in unexpected ways to this connection, because it is always a life-changing experience, particularly when meeting the first Mature State True Emotion Mirror. The TrEmor is such a person, that […]

True Emotion Mirror or a simple rejection junkie – here’s the key points

The first question that enters the mind of a True Emotion Mirror soon after they meet their other half is “Oh my god. I’m going crazy. I think they’re in love with me too? Are they in love with me? Am I imagining this?” They are always worried that they are projecting their own feelings, […]

Rejection and Playing Hard to Get

Here’s my dilemma: I look at myself in the mirror and I see the same face looking back at me every day. The same as all of us. I’m used to being who I am. When you see me for the first time, that’s the first time you’ve seen me. I’m used to me. When […]

How to learn to deal with rejection

Rejection is never pleasant, but there are ways to deal with it that makes it easier to take. This is not to ignore what happened, deny one’s own part of what happened, but to understand what rejection is and isn’t about. Rejection doesn’t mean you are a bad, unlovable, undesirable person. Rejection simply means you […]

How do you know if a rejection is real or a game?

There are people who toy with the people who they are interested in. They play games of all sorts, test their intended, challenge them, irritate them, try to push them away just to see if they’d call their bluff. It may be truly difficult to tell when a rejection is real and when it is […]

When Is a Rejection NOT a Rejection?

Rejection can be painful when it comes from someone who you thought would love you. While sometimes this is a real intent, too, there are plenty of situations where people simply misinterpret insecurity and fear for a rejection. This post is hopefully reassuring for those who are truly in love, and who are truly loved […]

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