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How to get over a rejection?

If you are a monogamist, this should be easy for you. You know each one of us typically can only have ONE partner, ideally, for the rest of their lives. Think about that. The more wanted a person is, the more options they have to choose from to be that one single partner in this […]

Both the Normal Person* and the Savants* get quiet when the arguing gets too vicious

It is important to make a notice, that both the Normal Person* and the Savants* quiet down and withraw in a relationship or in a family where there is a loud argumentative person around, whether that is the Normal Person* or a Savants*. If the Savants* is too young or too poor […]

Why are we still arguing over something as simple as gay marriage?

This is going to hit you in the gut so bad. We’ve been arguing over stuff like gay marriage for yonks now. Every the Savants* in this world has already decided, many times over, that it is none of their business who people choose to love and care for and call their spouse, even […]

The rejection and denial of casual sex between True Emotion Mirrors

I can say I am always GOBSMACKED to hear reactions such as that from men. Women, I understand… From my perspective, but they probably don’t mean what I suppose they mean, initially. Coming from a very sexually liberated country, all sexual oppression and judging people for the number of partners they’ve had or something similar […]

How does a rejection junkie think?

There are two different types of rejection junkies, and for a soulmate theorist like me, there is that annoying aspect of knowing that the behavior of a True Emotion Mirror* can make you think you are one, and knowing the way soulmates behave in reality may make a rejection junkie think that what they are […]

The Warnings About Rejection and Running Behaviors

I write this blog painfully aware of two different thinker types prying on every word. One finds justification to keep harassing people who do not love them, the other nervously seeks for warning signs that they are doing just that – and stop when they haven’t even made it clear they’re interested. I am balancing between two extremes, so please keep this in mind as you go.

Inability to accept rejection maybe mistaken for undying love and is caused by entitlement issues

Again, be careful not to throw the baby out with the bath water with this thing, but a little bathing is necessary. People who take rejection with acceptance, are people who believe they will be able to live a happy and fruitful life independent of other people – although knowing someone would make them happier. Not being able to accept rejection is a sign of poor self-esteem and co-dependence.