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the Young Soul* bonding: “Gotcha! Now, submit to me – you’re mine.”

If a Old Souls* ever founds themselves having some kind of an intellectual debate with the Young Soul*, they might wonder what’s going on. The Young Soul*fights for dominance here, too, and if they catch you of a slight stupidity or hypocrisy, they think that now, they own you – you must submit to them […]

Nobody, no woman, even, is good at all relationships.

Men are not particularly bad at relationships. Neither are women. Women are not “better at relationships” at all. We are all great at relationships that we understand. Everything else, we blame on the opposite party. The Young Soul* think they are “great at relationships” but they’re great at relationships with other the Young Soul* only. […]

Why slam-shut closed relationships don’t work?

If you seek commitment, try not to forget that relationships can be broken. Divorce is still a real thing. This is the reason: When you commit to someone with absolutely NO WAY OUT the only risk you’re facing now is that THIS won’t work, and you’re stuck. Then, your full focus goes into TRYING to […]

People prioritize their relationships differently.

When you make a friend, it’s good to know their priorities. In which order do they consider themselves loyal – by default? Friends (which ones, male or female friends?), family members (does the gender of the family member count?), boyfriends/girlfriends, fiances, spouses? Does a friend get behind a spouse, or do they remain a first […]

Why some people would want contentment over True Emotion Mirror relationships and vice versa?

There are two kinds of people, basically. One wants one type of love, and others want that other. Then, there’s a third type that everybody avoids; an obsession. The trouble is that True Emotion Mirror relationships may look on the outside like an obsession without being so. Obsession is a feeling that you cling to […]

Principle decisions in relationships: yey or nay?

OK, so in a fit of anger, you screamed at your mother that you’d never speak to her again for as long as you live, and you won’t be seen at her fucking funeral, either. Giving it six months, your feelings have somewhat eased up; should you keep to your decision just so you don’t […]

Checklist to make sure you’ll only have great relationships

I know you won’t believe me at first, at least. This kind of goes against all relationship advice you’ve heard so far – but how is your love life going? Have awesome friends, then? Played it all by the book and your relationships are bland or temporary to say the best? You’ve sort of approached […]

Why is it important to a M8R10 know how to be alone (without friends or love relationships)?

Short and sweet: If you’re a catch, and others agree, they’ll want to… well, catch you. If you’re dependent on having SOMEONE, you won’t stay alone/single for long enough to even FIND someone worthy of you, let alone making it official. (Polyamory might be a good idea.)

Being anxious around people – Who has a problem?

I believe, that whatever your psychological profile may be, it has a LOT to do with the people who you are surrounded by on a permanent basis. This means, that if your friends are not truly people who you enjoy your time with, you will feel anxiety, anger, frustration, disconnect, you’ll feel unemotional, and detached […]

Common Mistakes People Make in Relationships but Blame Their Partner for Them

There are a number of common relationship mistakes people do, but wholeheartedly think it’s other people’s flaw or blame. These are some of them – I may have missed a few. This might make a rough bit of reading. Assuming the other person WANTS a relationship with you This is probably the biggest mistake people […]

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