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Waiting for bonding signals with ANOTHER PERSON

There are people who see men and women as relatively equal options as far as a spouse goes. Therefore, if they are interested in a person, they look for “bonding signs” in that person, before they make their move. They fear rejection or wasting their time with a person who they are interested in, as […]

Romantic relationships with no sex involved – is that supposed to be enough?

In the following, I am in no way suggesting that people should always do relationships the same way. Not at all. Everyone who has listened to me for five seconds should know this. However, what people seem to insist on having the right to do is to dictate the rules of the relationship THEY WANT […]

Bonding order of different polyalignments

As you may know by now, we’re all naturally aligned toward either monogamy, polygyny, polyandry, or polygynandry. This alignment is most clearly defined in the Savants* than in the Normal Person*, who tend to always be a little more open for anything others around them wants to be doing or consider interesting. However, for […]

Honest Relationships (Friendships included)

There are a few ways a person gains a reputation of being snobbish or a bad person or “undeserving” or a number of other negative labels based on how they make friends or treat other people. This is a bit of a trap, to be honest, and I need the M8R10 group to be very […]

Bonding Method; the Normal Person* and the Savants*

The bonding method describes a person’s approach to new people. The goal, for both types, is to gel with the new group, or a new chosen group or a person. However, the Savants* do so predominately cautiously and with what they call respect: “I don’t want to step on your toes, but I need […]

How do people wind up disappointing or deceiving you in relationships?

Trusting people can be scary. Sometimes, when people feel afraid of trusting people, they show more trust than they truly feel and go against their better judgment. This is because they’re fully aware that they have trouble trusting people, so they go overboard with trust and wind up burned. They force themselves to trust people […]

How to avoid True Emotion Mirror -blocking relationships

Most old souls, by experience, believe that the height of true love is immediate, or it won’t turn into love. This is partly true. Curiosity about this person must exist and it must be mutual, or it won’t turn into true love. But you can be curious about someone without it being a Mature State […]

What does fear tell us about our different type relationships?

Fear is never a good motivator when it comes to spiritually sound decisions. However, it is a helpful feeling to determine what type of relationship we’re currently in, and what fears we must work to remove. “Wrong” fears There are fears that signify a relationship that is based on the wrong things. The fear is […]

E. Bonding Motivation: Sapio/Physio -modalities

The following is a bit of a tiring read but can be illuminating once you get it. If you’ve read a few posts already, maybe a break before delving into this one might be a good idea. We are all combinations of at least a few basic traits, and the presence or absence of them […]

F. Bonding Target: Better terms for your sexual orientation

In the following, I’ll change the way you see your sexual orientation. To be fair, these are not normally regarded as a sexual orientation but more of a lifestyle choice. I strongly believe they are actually akin to a natural, inborn sexual orientation. Because of the polygamous leanings in our true sexuality, the way our […]

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