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Flirting and bonding: the Normal Person* vs. The Savants*

Flirtation in the Normal Person* and the Savants* way can throw a lot of True Emotion Mirrors into a twist that is not easy to unravel. Let me describe some flirtation techniques that often get lost by a different type of a thinker – and how they often relate to also our natural bend […]

Poly-relationships: True Love or Just Simple Boredom?

Poly-relationships, whichever way you like them, polyandrous, polygynous, group marriage, committed, non-committed, equal, or unequal are all a way to make a lackluster relationship far more interesting in the long run. That is a fact, but not all poly-relationships are about theĀ lack of true love but the opposite; the authentic state of anĀ authentic group of […]

True Emotion Mirror relationships by soul age level

True Emotion Mirror relationships, even classic True Emotion Mirror reunion, can happen at any soul age level at all. There are some differences in what the relationship looks like and what causes drama in the relationship, partly based on the soul age level of the pair. Each True Emotion Mirror pair is always on the […]

Bisexuality and poly-relationships, are all poly’s bi?

Polysexuality is quite an interesting topic to explore, even if it was only from a theoretical point of view. Often, polygamyORpolygynandry1 is automatically linked to the form of polygyny; one man marrying several wives whose primary job is to rub the husband’s feet and nurse his babies, right? In reality, and in modern day reality, […]

Power tip for relationships: People lead by example – everyone always does

Have you ever wondered why people treat you so weird sometimes? You’ve taken offense a million times for no reason, simply because you didn’t understand this: People always treat you the way they expect YOU to treat THEM; they model to you in order to invite in you what psychology calls mirroring behavior. If they […]

Building your dream life and relationships

This post has got to do with The Law of The Truest Wish, and how to remove yourself from limiting ideas while trying to discover your authentic way of being. Approach from the angle of “Future”, some time in a distant future, allowing your soul the time to grow and the world time to develop […]

Abusive and Toxic relationships

When is it True Mirror abuse and when is it not? Unfortunately this topic cannot be avoided. True Emotion Mirror relationships can look toxic on the surface, but sometimes what looks like True Emotion Mirror abuse isn’t such, and even if it is, it has to be dealt with. As a Savants*, you probably […]

Yet another way to look at soul bond relationships

To some of you who have found your way over here this post may be a relief, to some it may be a bit of heresy. I apologize to those who are convinced of the traditional view on True Emotion Mirrors and continue on with the rest of you. I am convinced that True Emotion […]

True Emotion Mirror relationships are not suitable for child-adults hence the late reunions

True Emotion Mirror relationships are extremely intense and demanding relationships, as you all are well aware. We live in a culture in which children and childhood is so over-emphasized that parents have hard time letting go the control of their children, resulting into spiritual helicopter-parenting well after the children have left home… Decades after. Many […]

What can I learn about my love relationships by studying the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology?

True love is the stuff your mother warned you about: To never trust your lust, to avoid people you feel drawn to and be mistrustful of anything and anyone that seems like something you wanted and could have.

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