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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

Do not let people shame or guilt you for being who you are and loving the people you love.

Platonically or sexually. Do not let people shame you off your authentic self. I know it’s hard to fight the urge to be acceptable but inauthentic. To hide your true self because you think people will hate you for the real you – or consider it their sole right to be what you want to […]

Let your true love be a potato sack.

This is advice for ancient soul women, really. It applies to men, too, but the problem typically affects men: high-stress levels in a love relationship. Men are just about expected to levitate to be good enough for any woman at all, simultaneously as the expectations on women get less and less. To demand anything from […]

If you want true love you can’t be a fake person when looking for it.

Now. Right this instant, stop telling yourself that YOU cannot find love as YOURSELF. You can. The question is, is the love of someone just like you worth it to you? In other words, would you date you? What you give is what you get. Give what you want and you’ll get it back the […]

Love Bombing or True Love?

You know we love to say nice things to people who we love and that is absolutely natural. When we truly fall in love, we shower that person with praise. We cannot get enough of saying nice things about someone we adore. So how do you know it’s “love bombing” and as such. Do they […]

You don’t know who you are until you know what group of people you want to make happy.

Heterosexuals should feel the need to make the opposite gender happy. Homosexuals wish to make the same gendered people and the gay section of those people happy. You may want to make children happy, animals, you name it, but to know who you wish to serve is to know who you are. When the service […]

If you want true love, do not alter your behavior and approach because they’re man or a woman.

“Men and women” is an illusion. There are the Timeless and the Modern, but they are not gender-linked. You think they are because if you are a Timeless, you’ve gotten used to hands-on the Modern chasing you, or if you’re the Modern, you love to chase the Timeless because you like a challenge. The Timeless […]

You can stop expecting true love to be unconditional

You are ashamed that you have to do something for love, right?   You’re envious of babies who get to shit their pants and be graded and fed and smiled at all day long, right? What do they have that you don’t, you ask. Age, on their side, is what. It stops being cute around […]

To get true love you have to learn how to be charming.

There are people who confuse unconditional love with true love. Unconditional love, however, is reserved for infant babies. Children over 6 years old are learning fast how to be charming – how to be nice and fun to be with. A baby is given unconditional love because that’s the key to their survival. Adults, however, […]

Real or Fantasy – True Love at First Sight or just a foolish crush?

Here’s the interesting thing: I trust people to fall in love at first sight MORE than I trust them falling in love with someone nice they’ve gotten to know a bit. The reason is this: Your instinct can lead you to the right one; your soul recognizes its’ true lover (even if there’s a few […]

The 3 sides to experiencing true love.

There are 3 factors that go into true love; to be loved, to be lovable, and to love. If you’ve only ever been around lovable people, you have no idea what it feels like NOT to LOVE. You may even think that your ability to love the people around you is to YOUR credit, and […]

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