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Who you want to be is more important to your authenticity than what people think you are or should be.

Authenticity is not an easy thing to tackle, especially if you’ve played along a bit too long. Still, I insist, that who you wish to be is far more important metric to who you authentically are than what you are thought to be let alone expected to be. Let’s use a negative example on this […]

What is the line between being real/honest/authentic with others and having private thoughts nobody needs to know about?

Incredibly, it’s been ten years since I lost all privacy from my brain. Every thought, every impulse, everything I think about, tried to suppress, real thought or just a knee-jerk reaction, all of that is broadcasted to every spirit with me – which is… A lot of people. Often these thoughts are about them. “Oh, […]

Do you want “true love” because you don’t believe regular love is quite enough for someone to love you?

Look, I’m not saying that true love doesn’t exist; it does. Still, take a little self-scan and answer that question: Do you want true love (partly) because you think it would take a small miracle for you to be loved?

True love ignites at first sight, false love by getting attention.

You won’t believe it until it happens – you’ll feel reassured if it already has: true love ignites at first sight, but false love ignites through attention received. Both need attention shown to go somewhere. If your goal is to “just find someone,” this post is not really relevant to you at all, but if […]

Definition of “true love” and your personal bar

People interpret the expression of true love differently. First of all, people who don’t feel much loved at all think people who are looking for true love are looking for someone to love them. Unconditionally, I might add. In contrast, people who feel they are much loved and quite popular are looking for someone they, […]

Create a fake image of who you are in truth.

If you feel embarrassed about “coming out” as your authentic self because you’re not sure it’s received correctly, how about you think of it as a con? You “Fake it ’till you make it” as they say: you “lie” until it becomes true. This is often the way people go from their teen years to […]

Of course there is a BOND between you and your soulmates, doesn’t make it a sign of true love.

There are some of you who feel a bond with someone and take that to mean they’re True Emotion Mirrors. A bond exists between ALL TYPES of soulmates; otherwise, they wouldn’t BE soulmates. You can safely switch “soulmate” to “someone I have a bond with” without any loss of meaning. Some bonds are felt stronger […]

What if your authentic way of being is unnatural?

I preach about finding your authentic way of being, but that does not mean… pre-historic. We are humans, we’ve evolved far into the future as thinking, technologically advanced species with a ton of tools for all purposes imaginable. Our natural way of being is that of innovation of altering our environment and sometimes our bodies. […]

Don’t let your ego talk you into the wrong relationships when looking for true love.

If you are consciously looking for your True Emotion Mirror, you will likely start interpreting mild True Emotion Mirror signs for real ones. It’s also true with just a regular “the right one” concept; you want to find it so bad that you’ll start seeing things. Still, you know you don’t like this thing about […]

True Emotion Mirrors, Authenticity, and Unconditional Love

True Emotion Mirrors are, to each other, people who, in their authentic state, are everything they love about other people. Once a person truly liberates oneself from social norms and expectations, they are exactly what their counterpart will love. Mind you, a person may have to try and control their thrive for perfectionism to fit […]

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