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Denying/hating who you are will force you to hate your closest soulmates

Your True Emotion Mirrors and Precious Soulmates* are your two most important groups of people. They are the people who you AUTHENTICALLY love, deep in your core, without any ability to change that fact. However, you are more than capable of hating yourself. When you hate yourself, you deny aspects of yourself. You tell yourself […]

Must Read: Relationship dynamics when one person is looking for “true love”

I am going to go on at length here, as this is going to explain so much of what you are experiencing – whatever it is that you are going through – that I cannot skip too many parts here. This explains our ’emotional reality’, and, even as this is going to be a large […]

Protecting your authentic self from your work and your marriage

As your coach, I wish to advise you to avoid all life paths that lead to the suffocation of your authentic self. One of the most certain ways to suffocate large areas of your self is subscribing to the expectations of professional or marital life – worse yet, both. That is not to say a […]

Denial, humility, true love, dreams, and ego

It is beyond frustrating to try and reject someone who doesn’t seem to be getting the message. No matter how much you try to insult them or hurt their feelings to drive them away from you, they find a way to interpret what you say or do as a sign of undying, ultimate, height of […]

Importance of Authenticity

I often offer myself and my guys as an example of “authenticity”. We are a perfect example but we are not the perfect template. We are also not an example of perfection. An example is not to be confused with a model or an instruction, or a shared ideal. Examples are rarely meant to be […]

The concept of “true self” or “true you” in the light of other teachings

The one pet peeve of mine about a lot of spiritual people is their insistence “the true self” is something external to them, something “better” than them. This is RIFE with misinterpretation. A lot of spiritual people regard “the true self” to be some angelic pure being. This is because God has been trying to […]

How to “be yourself” what defines “yourself”?

It is easier to see this from the negative perspective; If you enjoy hurting people, you are a hurtful person. If you enjoy taking what isn’t yours, that makes you a thief. If you enjoy cheating on people, that makes you a cheater and so forth. As irresponsible as it sounds, I’ll suggest that it […]

The Effect of Christian Values on Your Authentic Relationships

Christianity is marked by the attempt to control “the evil” and to enhance “the good”. Every good, true Christian knows how we demand ourselves to feel feelings that don’t come easy and suppress feelings that rise without being invited. The fight between God and Satan within us. We mean well, but this is not a […]

Your true love is the same kind of a pervert as you are

Sex, as far as I am concerned, is the KEY element in your romantic relationship. If you want it and your partner doesn’t you’re friends, not lovers nor partners. If you don’t want it and your partner does, you’re friends, not lovers nor partners. The one who wants more from a relationship than what they […]

The possibility of non-monogamous true love

For the record, a person never TRULY falls in love with someone who isn’t a natural match to their own desires, at least I don’t believe it to be possible. (Crushes and obsessions that are based on a false idea of who someone is, and some of those people you want simply because you can’t have […]

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