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Why finding true love is so confusing

True love would be easy to identify if you knew nothing of it, but we all know something. We ALL know too much. We all have heard of it, and that is the biggest problem of all. Some of us don’t believe in it, some keep searching with gusto never finding it, some decide not to think of it because even daring to hope to find it is too much to take… But if we didn’t even know what we were looking for, it would be the easiest thing in the world to identify.

About authenticity – what, how and all that. (Or Being Yourself)

To show who you are in your Authentic Mode is the key to True Mirror unions. You have to bravely let your True Mirror into your secret world, the hidden part of you. The running phase is a sign that you are not brave enough to show each other your Authentic Selves, which includes telling them exactly how you feel for them – revealing the inner you.

Authentic self vs. Current expression

Authentic Self is the person you would be if you felt free to be who you want to be. Your Current Expression is the person you think you ought to be in order to be a good person, and who people tell you you ought to want to be. What society (and religion) thinks you should want and what you truly want for yourself are two very different things.

Working on your relationship(s) without trampling on the other person’s authentic self

Authentic self is a sum of qualities that you wish you could call your own qualities. WISH. Very few of us has made a definite decision on who they want to be yet, so partner’s needs will affect our wishes and what we want to be. A good partner will not hide their wishes, but also they will not jam their wishes down their lover’s throat in a bid to turn them into something they’d love more than the loser they’re stuck with. Dangerous area, sometimes – trampling is so common it’s done at a marriage counsellors office with professional support!

Why the concept of divorce protects true love.

It didn’t take us long to decide to ban the entire idea of no divorce, but to put divorce on a pedestal; this lovely thing was the very thing that made our commitment valuable, sacred and pure; freedom. The thought of divorce was inconceivable, yet an absolute necessity to the sanctity of this marriage.

How to discover your Authentic Self

The “spiritual work” that we are encouraged to do should always aim for finding your authentic way of being. (It’s a hangover from organized religions that we are still trying to find the “correct” way of being rather than the authentic one. We should aim to become a self-aware animal, not try to “kill the […]

A Trail Companion* may turn into a True Emotion Mirror through changing their authentic self

Don’t get your hopes up, BUT there is a theoretical chance that a Trail Companion* will turn into a True Emotion Mirror. (And the other way around.) It is so rare, that I am second-guessing whether or not to include this at all, but I will just to make sure the theory is accurately described. […]

True love may cause erectile dysfunction

One of the most embarrassing side effects of being thrown face to face with your true love (True Emotion Mirror) is that after being almost incapable of containing your desire for this new girl, you finally get to the bedroom… And nothing happens. And when I say “nothing happens”, I mean the worst thing ever […]

Accidental avoidance of true love by picking the next one down (NOD-syndrome)

Have you ever met a pair of friends, thinking both of them looked kinda hot, the other one you truly truly thought gorgeous, but the other one was still well hot enough – and went for the well hot enough? You just avoided true love. This is where get into trouble with rationalising things. We […]

He, your true love can see you, you know…

Today, a massive revelation to me about HOW do soulmates (True Emotion Mirrors) know when it is time for them to reunite. I have brushed on this topic before, but it does need some tweaking so, here we go. You know how you are told that you have to do spiritual work in order to […]

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