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What is a difference between a Narcissist and a Elder Soul(s)* and a Young Soul(s)* thinker?

According to myself, a narcissist is a person who needs to create a false sense of self to cope with their reality. This results in deflecting blame, insensitivity to other people’s views and opinions, and unwillingness to consider other people’s needs as valid (especially if seeing other people’s needs would result in the loss of […]

Normal vs. Narcissistic – Young Soul(s)* and Elder Soul(s)*

Most of my blog posts involve a dysfunctional Young Soul(s)*-Elder Soul(s)* dynamic. However, basically, this dynamic describes a narcissistic reaction (the moral outrage) of the Young Soul(s)* who loves someone who doesn’t love them back. For a Young Soul(s)*, a person who doesn’t return love is seen as “narcissistic,” in layman’s terms. For a Elder Soul(s)*, a person who cannot live […]

Elder Soul(s)* or Young Soul(s)*?

1. Can a person be unhappy or depressed due to serving someone else’s needs but be considered to be living a good life/living right?   2. Is it possible for a person to live a life in a manner that disappoints someone who deeply loves them but still be considered a good person living their […]

Young Soul* try to minimize their world view to manageable, the Elder Soul(s)* embrace uncertainty.

Whenever Young Soul(s)* feel insecure about their life and management of it, they try to minimize their world to something they feel is manageable in size. This is why the Young Soul(s)* maybe drawn to BDSM, straight jackets, padded rooms, and other limited spaces when feeling distressed, because they’ll find these areas controllable. They don’t HAVE TO […]

the Young Soul(s)* and the Elder Soul(s)* can do the exact same thing for opposite motivations.

The reason why we decide who is modern and who is timeless is because we do and say largely the same thing under completely different motivations and different meanings. It is very difficult to decide who is what by outward behavior. Individually, these behaviors change, too, but we have to learn to cue to the […]

Elder Soul*, although impressive, do not operate to be admired.

Elder Soul* are not functioning in order to be admired. They work to serve, and live to enjoy their lives and to help others enjoy theirs. Don’t try to repay them with admiration. Repay them by learning and enjoying yourself – but not at their expense again.

Why the Elder Soul(s)* male thinks and behaves like a mix of the two thinker types.

A the Elder Soul(s)* man who “knows how to treat women” is quite a conundrum to type in terms of thinker type. This is because they have taught themselves to “treat women right,” which, haha, it’s a bit like the “how to train a dog” manual. As the women who are most eagerly looking for commitment […]

“No time wasters” as per the Elder Soul(s)* and the Young Soul(s)* definition.

If you ever see a “no time wasters” or some reference to “time wasters” in a dating profile, it’s more than likely the Young Soul(s)*’s profile, but if a Elder Soul(s)* would write it, they’d mean the complete opposite with it, again, than the Young Soul(s)* does. A the Young Soul(s)* is looking for a monogamous commitment of some […]

Don’t force The Elder Soul(s)* into a relationship nor The Young Soul(s)* out of it.

The Young Soul(s)* feel the need to prove or to be proven that they are “serious” about the relationship by insisting upon it. The Elder Soul(s)* need you to be the best, most amazing person they can imagine ever winding up with to fall in love with you and to keep a relationship going with you. Now, […]

the Elder Souls*; match your energy to friendly but not a doormat.

Your biggest problem as a Elder Souls* is likely to be over-compassionate. This doesn’t mean you’re GENUINELY compassionate, but you feel guilty for not being compassionate at times, so you overreact to a feeling of compassion toward someone. Rather, examine the situation. Are you reacting to an adult the same way as you were a […]

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