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What is a difference between a Narcissist and a Cat Thinker(s)* and a Dog Thinker(s)* thinker?

According to myself, a narcissist is a person who needs to create a false sense of self to cope with their reality. This results in deflecting blame, insensitivity to other people’s views and opinions, and unwillingness to consider other people’s needs as valid (especially if seeing other people’s needs would result in the loss of […]

Normal vs. Narcissistic – Dog Thinker(s)* and Cat Thinker(s)*

Most of my blog posts involve a dysfunctional Dog Thinker(s)*-Cat Thinker(s)* dynamic. However, basically, this dynamic describes a narcissistic reaction (the moral outrage) of the Dog Thinker(s)* who loves someone who doesn’t love them back. For a Dog Thinker(s)*, a person who doesn’t return love is seen as “narcissistic,” in layman’s terms. For a Cat Thinker(s)*, a person who cannot live […]

Cat Thinker(s)* or Dog Thinker(s)*?

1. Can a person be unhappy or depressed due to serving someone else’s needs but be considered to be living a good life/living right?   2. Is it possible for a person to live a life in a manner that disappoints someone who deeply loves them but still be considered a good person living their […]

Young Soul* try to minimize their world view to manageable, the Cat Thinker(s)* embrace uncertainty.

Whenever Dog Thinker(s)* feel insecure about their life and management of it, they try to minimize their world to something they feel is manageable in size. This is why the Dog Thinker(s)* maybe drawn to BDSM, straight jackets, padded rooms, and other limited spaces when feeling distressed, because they’ll find these areas controllable. They don’t HAVE TO […]

the Dog Thinker(s)* and the Cat Thinker(s)* can do the exact same thing for opposite motivations.

The reason why we decide who is modern and who is timeless is because we do and say largely the same thing under completely different motivations and different meanings. It is very difficult to decide who is what by outward behavior. Individually, these behaviors change, too, but we have to learn to cue to the […]

Old Soul*, although impressive, do not operate to be admired.

Old Soul* are not functioning in order to be admired. They work to serve, and live to enjoy their lives and to help others enjoy theirs. Don’t try to repay them with admiration. Repay them by learning and enjoying yourself – but not at their expense again.

Why the Cat Thinker(s)* male thinks and behaves like a mix of the two thinker types.

A the Cat Thinker(s)* man who “knows how to treat women” is quite a conundrum to type in terms of thinker type. This is because they have taught themselves to “treat women right,” which, haha, it’s a bit like the “how to train a dog” manual. As the women who are most eagerly looking for commitment […]

“No time wasters” as per the Cat Thinker(s)* and the Dog Thinker(s)* definition.

If you ever see a “no time wasters” or some reference to “time wasters” in a dating profile, it’s more than likely the Dog Thinker(s)*’s profile, but if a Cat Thinker(s)* would write it, they’d mean the complete opposite with it, again, than the Dog Thinker(s)* does. A the Dog Thinker(s)* is looking for a monogamous commitment of some […]

Don’t force The Cat Thinker(s)* into a relationship nor The Dog Thinker(s)* out of it.

The Dog Thinker(s)* feel the need to prove or to be proven that they are “serious” about the relationship by insisting upon it. The Cat Thinker(s)* need you to be the best, most amazing person they can imagine ever winding up with to fall in love with you and to keep a relationship going with you. Now, […]

the Old Souls*; match your energy to friendly but not a doormat.

Your biggest problem as a Old Souls* is likely to be over-compassionate. This doesn’t mean you’re GENUINELY compassionate, but you feel guilty for not being compassionate at times, so you overreact to a feeling of compassion toward someone. Rather, examine the situation. Are you reacting to an adult the same way as you were a […]

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