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How to make a relationship with the Normal Person* and a Savants* work?

In this context, the key difference between the way the Normal Person* and a Savants* thinks is sex and romance. It is NOT REALISTIC to expect that the Normal Person* can fulfil a Savants*’s sexual and romantic needs, even if they turn into a regular porn star meets sex coach and learn every […]

the Normal Person* Thinking romance vs. The Cat Thinking romance.

the Normal Person* want to die for love. They delight in fighting duels. But the Savants* wants a man who lives and gives explosive orgasms. Paraphrasing Marilyn Monroe’s Diamonds are Girls’ Best Friends for a rule of thumb, the Normal Person* want to suffer for love and for their lovers to suffer more. Type […]

Breaking an unwanted bond – the Normal Person* leaving a Savants*

It is relatively easy to get rid of a Savants*, because all you need to do is to say you want it. In fact, it is so easy that many the Normal Person* break up with a Savants* BY ACCIDENT. Basically, you just have to TELL or SUGGEST to a Savants* that […]

Breaking an unwanted soulmate bond – the Savants* leaving the Normal Person*

If you’re a Savants*, and the person you’re leaving or asking to leave is the Normal Person*, you’ll have to understand one fundamental difference in your thinking. The Normal Person* always aim to preserve every relationship and make them deeper, but very much on their own terms. The Savants* want to ensure our […]

Narcissism according to the Normal Person* vs. The Savants*

the Normal Person* are dependent on other people and, thus, their approval. Their highest calling in life is to make their same-sex parent proud of them. They believe this to be true for all people. They believe in the unity of a group (usually a family) and hold the ideal of sameness – equality achieved […]

the Normal Person* transition to a Savants*

There are a few key life lessons to be learned between the Normal Person* and the Savants*. Both types know and agree that there are unwanted, unlikeable traits in other people. The Normal Person* tend to think their traits are lovely, understandable, sensible, and categorically ‘right.’ Still, the Savants* feel that first of […]

Why you’ll never be enough for a Savants* if you’re the Normal Person*.

Before I start, I’ll have to say there IS a possibility that the Normal Person* is enough for a Savants*, but that’s a love-at-first-sight sort of affair, or “What, you’re interested? Sure,” sort of event. Whatever it’s like, it’s fast, and often too easy and painless for the Normal Person* Thinking comfort levels. With […]

You’d be relieved to know that other the Savants* won’t actually judge you for these.

A lot of the things we the Savants* do are under the influence and power of the Normal Person*, even though we’d hate to admit it. Ironically, we do things the Normal Person* Thinking way to avoid judgment from fellow the Savants*. the Normal Person* Thinking women, in particular, have no problems speaking […]

the Savants* fight for the turf, the Normal Person* fight to teach you/to be taught how to be friends with them.

the Normal Person* Thinking family members almost never fight because they’re angry or because they hate you. They fight because they’re concerned and love you and try to educate you. With the Cat Thinking family members, they’re concerned because the Savants* doesn’t seem to be merging with the family the right way. They will […]

Teaching and learning – from the Savants* and the Normal Person*perspective

The Normal Person* may be asking for you to teach them something because they’re flirting; they want you to spend time with them and for one thing to lead to another. The Savants* will teach you for a sense of duty; they know stuff and feel they owe the knowledge to all of humanity. […]

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