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the Savants* wish to start new relationships with honesty…

the Savants* have a fixed personality that the Normal Person* try to mould in their children. If a Savants* has been born to a family where there’s a strong the Normal Person* influence, they can feel like they’ve been forced to lie their entire lives just to keep the peace. Therefore, they may […]

The way the Savants* and the Normal Person* define who they are, and why the Savants* is better.

While I won’t tell you NOT TO define yourself in the Normal Person* way, I’m going to say that the Savants* way of doing this is better. The Normal Person* wants to be defined by someone else, right? They want someone they admire to make them into an image of themselves like god did. […]

the Savants*; how to make your the Normal Person* Thinking parents let go of you.

If you’re not too angry with your parents’ need to keep you contained yet, this post has reached you in time. You may feel your parent doesn’t trust you and is trying to control your choices and guide you even though you’re already an adult and (mostly) self-sustained. You might find this irritating. Fear not. […]

Narcissists** want what they can’t have – therefore they’re always after the Savants*.

the Savants* have a very clear idea of who they are, what they want, and what they don’t want. This, to a narcissist with intimacy issues and a commitment phobia, is a safe zone. As they chase you for what they know they can’t have, they’ll feel like they are the more willing-to-bond partner […]

the Timeless -thinking* is a trauma from being too romantically attractive.

the Savants*, both men and women, are highly attractive both sexually and romantically – but the trauma comes from their romantic attractiveness and the need for people to secure them as a permanent part of their lives, in some romantic sense; as an “adopted” family member, an unusual friend or a business/work partner, or, […]

Why the Savants* don’t like the Normal Person* willingness to adapt to anything.

the Normal Person* will adapt to almost anyone and their wishes if that’ll get them a new friend. The Savants* are flexible and open-minded up to a point, but their personality and personal values remain unchanged in new relationships. The Normal Person*, when not fully accepted into any group yet, will remain in a […]

Normal Person* and the Savants*

  This is the most important part of all Free Spirit Theories but not necessarily the most interesting one. The Savants* and the Normal Person* are a part of everything I write. Without understanding the differentiation, it is quite impossible to understand the rest correctly. These two thinking types divide people in two groups. […]

What makes the Savants* thinkers a little gullible?

the Savants* thinkers would never be proud knowing that they, we, can get a little gullible. We value the truth so much that we find it inconceivable that someone would tell a lie for attention or approval. The Savants* feel it would be counter-effective, as the truth will eventually come out, and it […]

How a Savants* polyandrous male star can protect themselves against the Normal Person*polygynous female fan base.

Believe it or not, polyandrous the Cat Thinking men prefer a male audience. Maybe not ALL-male audience, but mainly male audience. There are, in fact,  two ways for men to protect themselves from the wrong type: rough looks or a talent that other professionals and serious hobbyists cannot deny… Or both. If a man is […]

Narcissistic abuse in the Normal Person*and the Savants* dynamics.

For the Normal Person* and a Savants* to have wound up in a relationship together, the Normal Person* must have chased the Savants* for a relationship. Now, before I continue, I must say that not all narcissistic relationships start the same way, and that True Emotion Mirror relationships can SEEM quite narcissistic at […]

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