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the Savants*; Give rules without passion.

Us the Savants* have a very common trait that we do… wrong. We write rules and codes of conduct with PASSION, with an expectation that people will break them, and therefore, we emphasize them emotionally so that they basically read, “do this, or it means war.” I am the WORST offender myself, and I’ve […]

the Savants*; You have two potential spouses to choose from, which one should you go for?

You know the general battle between “the right one” or “the good enough…” Is it dumb to think you’d genuinely fall in love and for that love to be everlasting? Are you just stupid thinking you could one day COUNT on someone, trust them, and love them and still feel sexual attraction and the romantic […]

What the Normal Person* and the Savants* find romantic.

Romance has two different modalities: non-sexual romance and sexual romance. We divide non-sexual romance into further two; idealist romance, which is the Savants* domain, and romance of caring for others, which is more the Normal Person*romance but nothing that the Savants* cannot appreciate – momentarily. Sexual romance is not really the Normal Person*tuff […]

New Relationship Falsehoods Normal Person* and Savants* Style

When forming a new romantic or sexual relationship, both the Normal Person* and the Savants* may not be quite upfront about what they want in the end. The Savants* will be coy about things, they’ll add information as time goes on, but whatever they lay out there is intended to be there. If […]

When the Normal Person* is raised in accepting the Savants* idealist environment you create ENTITLEMENT and overt sensitivity

the Normal Person* are born to conform. The Savants* are born to liberate and accept everybody. When the Normal Person* is born in a society, where everyone is accepted by default (in the Savants* style) they will grow up to DEMAND acceptance, approval, freedoms, and liberty, but as they are seeking their boundaries, […]

Both the Normal Person* and the Savants* accept the existence of social hierarchy

Both the Normal Person* and the Savants* accept a hierarchy of humans. We are ALL aware of “better” or “worse”, and, “beta”, and “alpha”. We are pack animals after all. However, the Savants*, in their fear of hurting others will actually do just that, by trying to protect the Normal Person* from emotional […]

Why the Savants* are not impressed by your “secrets”

the Savants* are pretty open people among other the Savants*. They share their innermost thoughts and feelings with anyone who seems interested in them. What, to the Normal Person*, is a deep heart-to-heart, to a Savants* is a casual conversation they won’t remember in a week’s time in any great detail. This […]

Soulmate Detox for the Savants*

Everything wrong in your life is because of ill-advised soul bonds. This is because your friends and family don’t understand what you want and won’t even believe you’re telling them the truth when you tell them what you want is what you want. They may believe that you’re simply joking around because you don’t want […]

What are “mixed signals” from the Savants* and the Normal Person* perspective?

Another hilarious difference between the Savants* and the Normal Person* is what we consider to be “mixed signals.” When the Normal Person* is looking for a relationship, they’re giving all single people the “come hither” signal. “Hello everyone, I am single and looking!” When a Savants* goes out, they have similar energy: “single […]

the Savants* and the Normal Person* – Insiders and Outsiders

The difference between the Savants* and the Normal Person* is that the Savants* view themselves as insiders – even if the smallest unit they control is 1, themselves, they are already INSIDE. They have a strong sense of who they are and what they like, and who they’d associate with given enough of […]

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